In a recent post, I wrote If you are you too bashful to ask for a spanking? Show her a picture.
One reader took it that showing the pictures to his wife might inspire her to redden his bottom beyond his limits.
I intended it to provoke the hundreds of OBB readers who are not spanked and have no one to spank. Simply because they are too shy or ashamed to admit what they want. It was a challenge to them to get out of the house and meet a partner.
[Verse 1]
Most of the cats that you meet on the street speak of true love
Most of the time they're sittin' and cryin' at home
One of these days they know they gotta get goin'
Out of the door and down to the street all alone
[Chorus 2]
Truckin', like the do-dah man
Once told me "You've got to play your hand"
Sometimes your cards ain't worth a dime
If you don't lay'em down
Spanking a gal is easy peasy. Just suggest it humorously. Something like, "You look like you need a spanking" while grinning at her. It has worked for me countless times. I have done it even when I don't intend to follow through. It breaks the ice and leads to an interesting conversation for a few minutes.
You want her to spank you. That's a lot tougher. Our culture has changed a lot, but most women still want a dominant male. If she thinks you will go all Beta Male on her she will probably tell you to move along. You can thank all the Beta's that came before you.
Or you can look at pictures and continue to rub one out like you have been doing since you were a teen.
You make a really good point, it is harder to get a woman to spank a man, but if there is anything I learned, its this: Ask, and if falls flat, move on! Ed Lee said, if you want to find a spanko, just walk down a busy street, you will pass by at least 10 or 20. You have to know what you want, and go for it.
ReplyDeleteThanks for ringing in on this sensitive topic.
DeleteBeing an old guy, the women I dated were looking for a good time, some laughs, and good sex. If they got that, they would evaluate him for long-term companionship. If the man were able to meet their needs, they had no problem spanking him, as long as he is not seeking for her to boss him around, humiliate him, deny him, kick him in the balls, etc. It takes some time for the woman to understand the man before he discloses he wants to be spanked.
Ed was right; spanko’s are everywhere. If you want to find one, keep asking. You will get turned down, just like you get turned down because you don’t have a high income or your ears look funny.
regarding Ed Lee's comment: Looking back on my life, I only wish I had known that before I got married. Lots of time, and heart ache saved
DeleteI fast-tracked getting my wife to spank me. I spanked her right out of the gate. We got to know each other. She had no problem spanking me.
ReplyDeleteI would say you guys are the exception rather than the rule, but as you said, you get turned down, but its a gift in a way, you don't spend your life with the wrong person.
ReplyDeleteThe obvious dawned on me. It was and is easy for us as we view spanking as a whole meal. We do not need to add a side order of FLR to it. Spanking is sexual foreplay for us. She gets turned on being spanked and spanking me. Ditto for me.
DeleteI saw a picture the other day of two guys waiting to be spanked. Both had limp dicks. That would not be me. I would be erect or heading out the door as something is going on that has spoiled the scene for me. It could be something she had done, it could be the room is frigid or
something else that turns me off.
So, yeah, we may well be exceptions. We live also in the real, not a fantasy world.
I would be perfectly happy to let Margot Robbie to put me OTK and spank me till she learned her lesson
ReplyDeleteBeing spanked by Margot is a fine fantasy. Fantasy was the third option.
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