I paddled gals like I like to be paddled. That was not enough for some of them. They wanted me to take them to higher falls and push them over.
Blistered red, black, and blue bottoms are a turn-off to me. I would usually quit before they got that way.
Some wanted to be punished for some past sin. Under those limited one-time deals, I would take them all the way. Long past tears to the stage where snot comes out of their noses. Where their legs shake uncontrollably. That's where they wanted to be - completely and fully conquered. It was a gift of submission to me, but it was not always appreciated.
A paddling I liked to give would last them maybe a day. The paddling they wanted would last them over a week, physically and mentally. They would report that the marks would start to fade after a week. And that they missed them.
I am just not a sadist.
Perhaps that explains why you don't see pictures of black and blue on OBB.
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After a decade or so, Bacall and I had our spanking routine down to just how we wanted it. She had her toys, and I had mine. Once in a while, she would ask for more than usual or a paddle that she normally would not want. Rarely she could not take even one of her favorite straps. I either had to tone it down or tell her she would just have to power through it.
Her toys in 2012
See the pussy whip? Grin, The batten replaced it.
Her toys in 2017 - Two stingy paddles added
So do I, bright red is fine, that's a spanking, beyond that I see a beating.
ReplyDeleteWith due nod to different strokes for different folks and not all bottoms being created equal, I too have preference for a nice hot-pink to cherry red behind. The more uniform, even, the better. A brightly colored, extremely warm, shapely bottom is delightful to enjoy and admire. Guess I enjoy sight of the female bottom too much to want it looking like it came out on the wrong end of a bar-fight.
ReplyDeleteP.S. Like the look of Bacall's red (or burgundy?) slapper paddle. Looks perfect for OTK!
DeleteThat's an interesting paddle. Made by her friend Bill. The burgundy side is all prrrr. The other side is hard tanned leather. It goes YEEOO. I lull her into a good place and say Bill wanted you to feel this. Then I hang on while she bucks. Goes to show, you can't judge a book or paddle by looks.
DeleteI have never played with anyone who needed spanked at that level. The closest I came to that was a woman I played with who wanted to be spanked hard with a belt. She had always dreamed of being spanked like that and I was giving her the first chance she had to experience it. She was crying after and loved the experience, but I did stop because I could see she was bruising significantly. I always felt it was the Top's responsibility to call a stop if he felt it was enough. It's difficult when the bottom wants more than the Top feels is enough.
ReplyDeleteIt depends on how you use a belt. If you raise your arm above your head and swing hard, the result can easily feel like a club causing bruises. However, if you keep your arm down and use your wrist, it is a sharp slap that stings and rarely leaves a mark no matter how long the spanking is. There is a gif that was on this site a while back of a girl holding a belt while going up some stairs and displaying a red, well spanked bottom with no marks or bruises.
DeleteI agree What complicates it more is that some mark dramatically more than others. One would turn black, blue and green if there was a paddle in the room. Grin. And more when I used it on her.
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ReplyDeletePeter Galtaire has left a new comment on your post "I Was Not A Great Top ":
I wholly concur with Bogey and other contributors here. Even in the pro spanking scene, while many of the girls are more than willing to receive a sound spanking with a range of implements, severe thrashings are frowned upon. Sometimes at parties the girls vie with one another as to who can take the most, but the more serious BDSM scene is another place altogether. My regular spanking partner likes to end a session by taking 6 or 12 hard strokes of the cane, by that stage she is well into the zone and enjoys the boost in endorphins right at the end.