Tops not knowing how to use implements properly. Using a cane and wrapping it. Using a heavy paddle too hard. Spanking too high. Spanking too fast so the sting can't be processed. Stopping too soon ha!
Women, who have been told by men, that they are somehow magically brilliant at spanking and discipline, when in reality they are inexperienced and unknowledgeable at being a Top or Domme. There is no shame in being inexperienced, as long as it is admitted and dangerous situations can be avoided. The problem usually boils down to men, desperate for a spanking partner, lying to women. And it is not confined to just spanking. There are a lot of women out there that think 12 inches is a lot shorter than it really is.
I have no experience with tops or domme's, nor would I want to. I did have two experiences with married women who spanked their husbands. In both cases, I found out in seconds that they had no clue how to safely spank and I stopped it right away. Of course, it could have been the case that they did not want to spank me, and did it wrong on purpose.
On many of the amateur sites, on spanking tube etc, it happens often. Spanking wayy too high is the most often occurrence. Secondly, spanking with an implement like a cutting board, which is way too heavy, coupling that with spanking too high. Ouch, and not the fun kind.
Spanking out of bounds is probably the most common sin. I spank one cheek at a time. I aim for slightly below the fullest part with an slightly upward motion - as if to lift her up.
Very few peeves at being on the receiving end, a possible advantage of being in the pro spankee/switch scene. BUT, both from my own observations at parties, and reports from spankees, many male spankers do not possess even the basic skills. Modesty prevents any comment on my own skills! One point on the correct target area; having spanked an embarrassingly high number of women, ladies vary in their preference as to the location of the 'sweet spot'. It is the responsibility of the spanker to find out their partner's preferences.
"..ladies vary in their preference as to the location of the 'sweet spot'." That I did not know. I need another lifetime to do it right. It makes for a good pre spanking conversion.
Spanks around the edges and top instead of solidly low where they jostle my pussy and bumhole!
ReplyDeleteTops not knowing how to use implements properly. Using a cane and wrapping it. Using a heavy paddle too hard. Spanking too high. Spanking too fast so the sting can't be processed. Stopping too soon ha!
ReplyDeleteThere are some that too hard or fast does not exist
DeleteWomen, who have been told by men, that they are somehow magically brilliant at spanking and discipline, when in reality they are inexperienced and unknowledgeable at being a Top or Domme. There is no shame in being inexperienced, as long as it is admitted and dangerous situations can be avoided. The problem usually boils down to men, desperate for a spanking partner, lying to women. And it is not confined to just spanking. There are a lot of women out there that think 12 inches is a lot shorter than it really is.
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I have no experience with tops or domme's, nor would I want to. I did have two experiences with married women who spanked their husbands. In both cases, I found out in seconds that they had no clue how to safely spank and I stopped it right away. Of course, it could have been the case that they did not want to spank me, and did it wrong on purpose.
DeleteOn many of the amateur sites, on spanking tube etc, it happens often. Spanking wayy too high is the most often occurrence. Secondly, spanking with an implement like a cutting board, which is way too heavy, coupling that with spanking too high. Ouch, and not the fun kind.
DeleteSpanking out of bounds is probably the most common sin. I spank one cheek at a time. I aim for slightly below the fullest part with an slightly upward motion - as if to lift her up.
DeleteThat’s how to do it! 👆
DeleteIt sure is! reminds me of an old 70's song.....
ReplyDeleteVery few peeves at being on the receiving end, a possible advantage of being in the pro spankee/switch scene. BUT, both from my own observations at parties, and reports from spankees, many male spankers do not possess even the basic skills. Modesty prevents any comment on my own skills! One point on the correct target area; having spanked an embarrassingly high number of women, ladies vary in their preference as to the location of the 'sweet spot'. It is the responsibility of the spanker to find out their partner's preferences.
ReplyDelete"..ladies vary in their preference as to the location of the 'sweet spot'." That I did not know. I need another lifetime to do it right. It makes for a good pre spanking conversion.
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