We Don't Leer

Women accuse men of leering at women. That is not true. It takes us longer to assess a woman than it does for women to appraise a man. The latter is done in less than a second. You have seen it many times. A woman across the room checks you out in half a second. If she maintains eye contact after that, you are a winner. If not, see what’s on TV.  

This is not just the case with human females. Consider the Birds of Paradise. The males have fancy plumage and spend a day or more making a nest. The female stops by and, in seconds, decides whether to mate or move on.

Men need more time to evaluate a woman. Sure, we pay attention to T&A. It’s in our DNA to ensure they are capable of ensuring live birth by having hips that are wide enough and breasts large enough for proper nutrition. We are also concerned that her limbs are long enough to fit comfortably behind her head. We need a few seconds to determine if the angle from the bridge of her nose to the edge of her lips approximates the Golden Ratio. All this and more, but we are not leering.

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A Readers View on Position

I prefer OTK. For me, OTK is truly a shits and giggles fun spanking position. It is difficult to take it seriously if you are OTK with your wife or GF. To me, bending over like in school would conjure up too many images of punishment spankings. I am not interested in that, hence why I prefer the fun of going OTK.

Whatever works for you. I am diametrically opposite. OTK holds no appeal to me and is a turn-off. I bent over for the paddle in school in almost grade. Yet, I don't associate it with punishment as an adult. I love to hear "Bend over".

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For those fond of Bending Over, here is a lass bending over for the paddle.

https://www.spankingtube.com/video/152498/school-style-paddling