You folks sure were not impressed with the Sunday post of the gal in short shorts.
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A short conversation with Katherine:
Bogey: I was scared of the paddle in school. I love it as an adult
Katherine: I feel the same, being scared of the paddle back then, and now I don’t mind being paddled when I need a reminder!
B: The question we can not answer is if we were not scared back then, would we still relish it now?
K: That is an interesting question I hadn’t thought of. Hmmm now you me have wondering if it did make a difference now liking to be paddled. That’s possible as the paddle is still abit scary when bending over to get it!
B: It can be. We are both switches. Every once in a while, one of us will tell the other something like, "This is going to be really hard." If it was a cartoon strip, 'Gulp' would float above our heads as we steel ourselves for the licks to come. So yeah, it's a little bit scary offering your bare bottom to your spanker. But, so worth it.
B: Yes, the paddle is exciting as well as scary too when bending over for it to be used. It certainly has its benefits.
I have experienced that scary feeling when, after about two dozen hard licks with a paddle, Bacall tells me she wants to give me 20 more really hard ones. She sweetly asks, "Will you take them for me?" She has me. She knows 40 licks is really pushing me. She also knows I will take them for her. At that moment, my red hot bottom is suddenly feeling extremely vulnerable.
Seems that when given a choice they pick the largest paddle
The psychological and emotional aspects ( fear, anxiety, anticipation, excitement, dread, etc ) seem to be at the root of our interests. It is strange mix of emotion and different for each of us as Tops, bottoms or switches… None the less the dopamine hit and adrenaline rush we get is real and keeps us coming back for more. IMHO, this is a good thing! :)
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DeleteWow Dan, there is a lot more going on when you get paddled. I get sting and a boner. And when she wants to give me some extra, I feel a little vulnerable.
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