Hundreds of thousands of gals are waiting to be asked to be spanked. What are you doing about it?'
Being Manhandled is Often Appreciated
Hundreds of thousands of gals are waiting to be asked to be spanked. What are you doing about it?'
The discussion on ways to find a spanking partner this week made me reflect on my own situation. The obvious dawned on me. It was easy for us to have multiple play partners as we view spanking as a whole meal. We do not need to add a side order of FLR or anything else. This was critical for me, as most women don't care to play with male switches for fear of being asked to punish them like they are his Mommy.
Spanking is fun and is sexual foreplay for us. She gets turned on being spanked and spanking me. Ditto for me.
I saw a picture the other day of two guys waiting to be spanked. Both had limp dicks. That would not be me. I would either be erect or heading out the door as something is going on that has spoiled the scene for me. It could be something she had done, it could be the room is frigid or something else that turns me off.
We may be exceptions.
One reader took it that showing the pictures to his wife might inspire her to redden his bottom beyond his limits.
I intended it to provoke the hundreds of OBB readers who are not spanked and have no one to spank. Simply because they are too shy or ashamed to admit what they want. It was a challenge to them to get out of the house and meet a partner.
[Verse 1]
Most of the cats that you meet on the street speak of true love
Most of the time they're sittin' and cryin' at home
One of these days they know they gotta get goin'
Out of the door and down to the street all alone
[Chorus 2]
Truckin', like the do-dah man
Once told me "You've got to play your hand"
Sometimes your cards ain't worth a dime
If you don't lay'em down
Spanking a gal is easy peasy. Just suggest it humorously. Something like, "You look like you need a spanking" while grinning at her. It has worked for me countless times. I have done it even when I don't intend to follow through. It breaks the ice and leads to an interesting conversation for a few minutes.
You want her to spank you. That's a lot tougher. Our culture has changed a lot, but most women still want a dominant male. If she thinks you will go all Beta Male on her she will probably tell you to move along. You can thank all the Beta's that came before you.
Or you can look at pictures and continue to rub one out like you have been doing since you were a teen.
Warning: unless you like a long-legged lass in a black garter belt and heels bent over a bed do not scroll down.
Recently, a few male readers have mentioned that they wear panties. Bacall and I often wore matching panties for our private play. I would also wear them when we played with select partners.
Why? For the same unknown reason as you find spanking to be of so much interest. For us spanking is sexy and sexy panties add to the fun.
When I see Bacall holding a paddle I get erect. When I pull on panties I get erect.
I don't wear any other feminine wear. I don't feel feminine. I am just a guy in thin panties who is going to get paddled.
We liked to do a few chores on Saturday morning, shower and head out to do panty shopping. Sometimes a friend would join us and we would return with matching panties. Everyone paddled everyone that afternoon.