Foolishness since 2007

Foolishness since 2007
Foolishness since 2007

Wednesday, July 19, 2017

The Eyes Have It - I

Just a picture post of attractive women with eyes that really get to me.

There will be a part two of this post

Monday, July 17, 2017

Rollin Hand

A few years ago, Bacall and I got the chance to meet Rollin Hand near his fictional local of Leforge, Oregon. He was quite the gentleman. I must admit that he did not resemble Martin Landau. We chatted about our personal likes and dislikes about things spanking and also about his more recent stories. The first stories I read of his go back two decades or more. They were of the theme, boy meets girl, boy spanks girl. He was very clear that genre no longer held any allure for him and he wished those stories were not “out there”. I was disappointed as that those were my favorites.

I think we were on the same page in our early adult lives, but he changed and I stayed in the same rut. 

This may represent his view of spanking in his later years. One that I am on the opposite side of.

“Spanking is not about our physical reaction to the punishment but more about our mental reaction.  Spanking is about humiliation, submission, and dominance, about handing control to another human being, not about stiff cocks.”

We have no interest in humiliation, submission or dominance. Sometimes a little role play where Bacall feigns to be submissive. Same on discipline/punishment, just no interest.

This means there are precious few stories that we can enjoy. If I see a F/M story headed for OTK or punishment, I am done with it. Likewise, we have no interest in non-consensual spanking, you know those boarding schools and manors with someone who mets out licks with a cane.

If it’s fun or romantic we are all over it.

I do not mean to take away a thing from his latter stories, they are quite popular. Just not our cup of tea.

Peace to you sir.

Ronnie recently posted a list of spanking people with Twitter accounts. I don't know any of the newer ones, but I do know three on her list. Not friends, not at all, but we have been in the same room and exchanged conservation. All of the folks on the list make money from spanking. I guess there is no amateur team.

Wednesday, July 12, 2017

The Bathbrush

Everyone has one or more instruments of pain that they fear. For me, it's the bathbrush. I have never felt one. I plan to keep it that way.

A heavy piece of wood on the end of a stick is not my idea of fun. To each, their own.

He is being nice, choking up on the handle

She is going all out

 Holy scorchers!

Not a bathbrush, but still not my cup of tea

Monday, July 10, 2017

What Makes A Female Top?

On a website, a guy asserts that a natural female top/switch is created by an event such as a girl witnessing an F/M spanking AND where the girl harbors feelings of resentment against the boy and identifies with the spanker.

This was news to us. Do you think it has any validity?

If not, is there an event you feel makes you inclined to spank men?

Many thanks, always curious.


Saturday, July 8, 2017

Snowflake Saturday

Perhaps a few will enjoy these as much as we do.

On a lighter spanking related note, a reader sent us this.

Wednesday, July 5, 2017

Pictures That Excite Me - II

I thought this was a good followup to the last post on how I am so different from the mainstream guy that likes to be spanked. We are all so different.

On the recent post “Pictures That Excite Me”, Rick, presumably referring to this picture, wrote: 

My wife pulls down my pants and underpants, part of the punishment, feel very little. Standing facing the wall afterward, displaying a spanked bottom, hoping no one drops in. 

We are all so different. Rick enjoys a totally different spanking experience than I do. He calls it punishment, while I call it funishment, that is getting my bottom smacked and then a sexual experience. 

He feels “little”, I experience no change in mindset.

He stands in the corner, while Bacall and I “get busy”.

Rick hopes no one drops in. We share this. I would not mind another woman joining us, but not just popping by. She could watch, she could paddle, she could get paddled.

As I said in the original post, I want no part of OTK, but some pictures of it attract me. It’s a mainstream male fantasy to be OTK, rubbing their excited member on stocking clad legs until they spurt. It’s not my fantasy, but it seems popular. I wonder how it will fare now that bare legs are the style?

Great picture! Anyone have any more of them?

Monday, July 3, 2017

I Tell All

I stumbled on this old blog and it made me realize how unique I am in how I enjoy spanking. These are my answers to the questions.

1. What age were you when you got your first adult bare-bottom spanking? 

2. Was it administered by an acquaintance, friend, girlfriend, wife or professional?

3. Was it for punishment, fun or foreplay?
Fun, foreplay

4. Was it inside of an existing committed relationship or outside of it? 

5. Does your significant other know that you desire to receive spankings at all?
Yes, since we started dating

6. If so, what was her response to it? 
Obliging, becoming fun for her

9. Would you say your desire to be spanked has grown or lessened over the years?
Remained the same

10. How often are you spanked as an adult now - approximately? 
About weekly, sometimes more often, sometimes as long as two weeks.

12. Are you ashamed or accepting of this desire?
I was a little ashamed until I was 40, now accepting

13. Choose as many as you like from the following. I prefer to be spanked with: hand, brush, slipper, paddle, belt, cane, ruler, ferule, flogger, other
Paddle only

14. What added attractions do you desire with your spankings: mouth-washing, corner time, panty play, forced feminization, temperature taking, prostate massage, strap-on, fellatio, cunnilingus, rimming, intercourse, none, OTHER 
None of those, unless panty play means wearing panties

15. Do you like to be spanked in role-play, real life situations, or no situation?
Role play is good once in awhile. But, bend over is all I really need.

16. If you like role-play do you like your spanker to be; mommy, aunt, grandmother, teacher, boss, neighbor, friend's mother, therapist, girlfriend, wife, NONE, OTHER 
Aunt, teacher, boss, wife, neighbor, GF, all good.

17. What age do you like to play when being spanked: child, teen, adult?

18. For true offenses, made-up ones or NONE?
Don’t need a reason.

19. What stage do you like to be spanked to: pink, red, to tears?
Red, with a white center

20. How do you feel about marks? (no thanks, okay if it happens, yes please)
I don’t mark, but they would be OK.

21. While being spanked do you feel: turned on, enjoyment, satisfaction, pain, other
Turned on

22. While being spanked do you: get an erection, remain soft, leak fluid, orgasm, OTHER 
Erect, from start to finish

23. What kind of spanker's dress do you prefer (prim, matronly, conservative, everyday casual, provocative, overtly sexual, leather n' stuff.)
Conservative, or lingerie

24. Have you been spanked in front of others? 
Would you be willing to be?
If yes, strangers or people you know?
People I feel comfortable with

25. Are you excited by the risk of being found out or do you like to keep this totally private? (Risk or private or both)
I am not excited or overly private about it

26. Have you ever been outed? 

27. What positions to be spanked in appeal to you the most? 
Bent over elbows on bed, hands on wall, kneeling with nose to the floor, bed, couch.

28. Have you ever been spanked to tears? 
No and have no desire to do so

It was the answers to question #22 that stood out to me. Most of the men said they were soft during the spanking, even if they were hard before. I stay rigid, only because I demand a few seconds between paddle pops to “process” the sting. If the pops came fast and furious like an OTK punishment session I would get soft quick. I know because Bacall likes to paddle fast and furious once on awhile, just because it amuses her. After six or so pops, I start to wilt. I like the sting, but I like the sexual stimulation. I want both.

Our paddling sessions are usually what Bacall call Joint Action Sessions where we both get the paddle. Other times, it's all about her or all about me. She decides. I like them all.

When it's all about me, about half-way through a there is a very short break. It allows for some groping and deep tongue kisses. She will “accidentally” brush my hard length with the back of her hand and give me a few full hand strokes. The idea is to tease me from hard to a blue veined monster. Then it’s back over for more licks delivered with gusto. Paddling over, she will fall on the bed on her back with a pillow under her and pull her heels to her bottom. 

When we do it this way, it’s all for me, and I go for it. It never takes long for me to tense for a few seconds and then become limp all over.

I never tire of it.

Tomorrow is the Fourth. Eating and social for some. A time of reflection and thanks for others.

Saturday, July 1, 2017

Progressives Have No Game

Progressives obsess about Trump, because otherwise, they would have to defend agendas that most Americans simply do not support.

Wednesday, June 28, 2017

Monday, June 26, 2017

The Girl I Did Not Spank

Readership up, comments down. A mystery to me.

I wanted to spank her. But, that was not her thing. I would chase her around her apartment and get in a few licks while she laughed and giggled.

Her kink was faux rape. We would end dates at her place. The way it was played was that after awhile she would retire to her room leaving me to sleep on the couch. After she closed her bedroom door, I was to wait five minutes then sneak into her room. I guess she used the five minutes to paddle her pink canoe. Before going further I should explain that she could lubricate a machine shop. 

She wore a sheer negligee that ended at her waist and equally sheer panties. My mission was to lift the covers, slip next to her and tell her I was going to have my way with her and there was nothing she could do to stop me. She would fight a little and wind up on her back with her knees bent. I would mount her and thrust myself into her with her panties still on. That was her thing, to be taken wearing her panties. The panties were well soaked and actually felt pretty good. She also liked to have her nipples bitten and much harder than I could imagine anyone enjoying. It did not take her very long to come. Afterward, she would move the gusset aside so I could completely enter her. 

Bacall also enjoys being taken. Bound to a tree, being blindfolded and handcuffed, etc. She imagines I am a pirate and she is a Persian slave princess. These things have been blogged about in the past.

As sordid as rape is, it amazes that so many women fantasize about faux rape.


Saturday, June 24, 2017

Different Viewpoints

On Division

By Peggy Noonan
June 15, 2017

What we are living through in America is not only a division but a great estrangement. It is between those who support Donald Trump and those who despise him, between left and right, between the two parties, and even to some degree between the bases of those parties and their leaders in Washington. It is between the religious and those who laugh at Your Make Believe Friend, between cultural progressives and those who wish not to have progressive ways imposed upon them. It is between the coasts and the center, between those in flyover country and those who decide what flyover will watch on television next season. It is between “I accept the court’s decision” and “Bake my cake.” We look down on each other, fear each other, increasingly hate each other.

Oh, to have a unifying figure, program or party.

More on Division

By Victor Davis Hanson

The United States is dividing as rarely before. Half the country, mostly liberal America, is concentrated in 146 of the nation’s more than 3,000 counties — in an area that collectively represents less than 10 percent of the U.S. land mass. The other half, the conservative Red states of the interior of America, is geographically, culturally, economically, politically, and socially at odds with Blue-state America, which resides mostly on the two coasts.

The two Americas watch different news. They read very different books, listen to different music, and watch different television shows. Increasingly, they now live lives according to two widely different traditions.

Red America and Blue America are spiraling into divisions approaching those of 1860, or of the nihilistic hippie/straight divide of 1968.

Currently, some 27 percent of all Californians were not born in the United States. More than 40 million foreign-born immigrants currently live in the U.S. — the highest number in the nation’s history.

Either the United States will return to a shared single language and allegiance to a common and singular culture, or it will eventually descend into clannish violence.

Things are bad now. But our own history suggests that if we are not careful, they can get even worse.

From the Coyote Blog

The world seems to be moving away from intellectualism.  I say this not because Trump voters were somehow rejecting intellectualism, but because intellectuals themselves seem to be rejecting it.  They act like children, they are turning universities into totalitarian monoculters, and they compete with each other to craft mindless 140-character "gotchas" on Twitter.  I challenge you to even find a forum today for intellectual exchange between people who disagree with one another.

From several people of note:

In 1843 Alexis de Tocqueville wrote that he had studied the Quran a great deal, His conclusion was there been few religions of the world as deadly to men as that of Muhammad.

Churchill said, How dreadful are the curses which Mohammedanism lays on its votaries! Besides the fanatical frenzy, which is as dangerous in a man as hydrophobia in a dog, there is this fearful fatalistic apathy. The effects are apparent in many countries. Improvident habits, slovenly systems of agriculture, sluggish methods of commerce, and insecurity of property exist wherever the followers of the Prophet rule or live. A degraded sensualism deprives this life of its grace and refinement; the next of its dignity and sanctity.

General George Patton also had unflattering things to say about Islam. To me, it seems certain that the fatalistic teachings of Mohammed and the utter degradation of women is the outstanding calls for the arrested development of the Arab. He is exactly as he was in the year 700.

Liberal Bill Maher has noted that there is only one faith that kills you or wants to kill you if you draw a cartoon of the prophet and that there is only one faith that kills you or wants to kill you if you renounce the faith. It’s more than just a fringe element.  The comparison of Muslim violence to Christianity is liberal bullshit.

More from Camille Paglia

On Sean Hannity’s nationally syndicated radio show, author and University of the Arts professor of humanities and media studies Camille Paglia railed against the current state of journalism in America.

Paglia called what she said the Democratic Party had done to journalism “absolutely grotesque” and warned it would take decades to recover.

“It’s obscene,” she said. “It’s outrageous, OK? It shows that the Democrats are nothing now but words and fantasy and hallucination and Hollywood. There’s no journalism left. What’s happened to The New York Times? What’s happened to the major networks? It’s an outrage.”

“I’m a professor of media studies, in addition to a professor of humanities, OK?” she continued. “And I think it’s absolutely grotesque the way my party has destroyed journalism. Right now, it is going to take decades to recover from this atrocity that’s going on where the news media have turned themselves over to the most childish fraternity, kind of buffoonish behavior.”

Sunday, June 18, 2017

Spanking/Sex On The First Date

The headline should attract some attention. I don’t advocate sex on the first date. I am not condemning it either or saying that I did not do it or want to do it more than once. But, looking back I think building the passion is worthwhile. Besides a one time a passion or mercy fuck is not always that pleasant a memory. One or both may regret it if one is more attached than the other. I have a fond remembrance of the time when the heart might be taken as seriously as an orgasm - of a time when both enjoyed the possibilities of moonlit summer evenings.

I happily recall the times I spanked my dates as a teen. The result was a half nude girl with a pink bottom who was quite passionate. I also recall the first time I spanked a gal as an adult. [Other than Bacall] I had her raise her skirt to her waist while I was seated on the spanking chair. I then pulled her panties down. This is normal for a spanking, but it would not work on a vanilla date. I don’t think asking a woman to just pull up her skirt on the first date would work out all that well. Do you?

So I am wondering how dating between switches works. I am talking of those like Bacall and I who have spanking and sex-linked together. I will assume that many emails and phone chats precede the meeting and probably a meeting just to look each other over. Perhaps they worked out how they would handle the sexual tension. Deny it, accommodate it without intercourse or play it by ear.

A woman’s sexual excitement is concealed. With a man, her arm swinging a paddle would not be the only thing waving around. I once suppressed my excitement with women not wanting to seem to be demanding. I would not do that now. I learned that suppression spoiled the paddling. If sex is not on the table, the women would just have to take my boner as a fact of the way it is or a compliment.

I am most curious how women approach first spanking encounters. 
When the woman is a bottom, I would think that situation would be the easiest to handle. It would be the first date, but she would be partially nude. Not a big thing in my mind.

If she is a top, he is going to be partially nude with a boner. 

If they are switches, they will both be devoid of clothing. How is this handled?

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Monday, June 12, 2017

Return To Bend Over Rock

Bacall writes:

I don’t know the reason, but going to certain settings gets me all tingly. We have been in two of those settings recently. The first was a private setting surrounded by red rocks. [The Valley Of Fire in Nevada] Bogey got the paddle out and I was excited before I ever got out the door.  I happily followed him into the rocks so that I could get the paddling that I had been looking forward to. No need to pretend that I didn’t want this because I really did. With every pop of the paddle, I became more aroused. Thank goodness no one was around us.

The second setting, the Alabama Hills, is one of our favorite places. The scenery is spectacular and it is very private.  A person could play to their heart’s content outside and no one would know.  We were both excited about being here. Bogey was especially ready for his paddling.  We started with a few pops on each after morning coffee. After breakfast, we proceeded to “Bend Over Rock” for a joint paddling session. I wanted Bogey to remember the paddling for a while, so I did not hold back.  When it was my turn, I bent over the rock and smiled between the saying “ouch” and “oooh”. After our return from the rock, we were both sated.

Bogey writes:
I put a blanket on Bend Over Rock to protect our skin from the sharp rock face. I took a photograph. We were as randy as teenagers and did not take time for any photo’s during the paddlings. A day or two later Bacall posed for a picture on the rock.