Sorry to disappoint those expecting posts this week. Suffice to say, it's been a whirlwind around here.
I want to revisit the last post. You recall that girl with the alluring eyes and a delicious figure.
The one I would propose to spank if the opportunity presented itself. Two readers reminded me that not all OBB readers could understand the post since they had no experience in asking a woman if she would enjoy a spanking.
Inquiring if a woman might enjoy some OTK time is so natural to me that I forget that spanking is a dark secret harboured by many men. [Men, not women]
I have never understood hiding the desire. It's legal. It's not creepy unless you make it creepy.
I got on the path to asking after being enlightened by my female cousin. When I was 15, she told me that I was never going to have a girlfriend if I kept being the wallflower at dances. I had to ask them to dance. I screwed up my courage and found that girls were soft and smelled good. Things could proceed to get more interesting, since they also have hormones. I learned to ask and keep on asking. Thanks, Pam.
Recently on X, a gal posted this picture with the question, Would you slap it or kiss it. I replied I would slap it, slap it several times, and then kiss. Just playful banter between strangers. It elicited several dozen likes. [I use my real name on X]
I find the repartee after asking her until she is snuggled across my lap to be intoxicating. The debrief after a spanking, when some will share intimate thoughts be aphrodisiacal.
OBB has always been about fun. Never discipline. Never humiliation.
I trust this will explain to those who have never spanked how I come to the subject.
This is more like wht I am attracted to, though I wonder how she got into that outfit
ReplyDeleteHow she got into that skin-tight outfit is a secret known only to women
DeleteAsk not...get not. I'm not sure why guys don't get this concept. It's also why at events I hosted we had ice breaker games that involved fully clothed light spanbking to get everyone comfortable. We found it gave guys and ladies an opportunity to see the fun of it and were much more likely to engage. But, yes, it is a wonder why guys don't ask...it's 50/50 shot.
ReplyDeleteAt our early parties, the gals organized skits, pretty racy skits. Gals know how to play much better than the guys. Watch a small group of 3 yo girls.
DeleteI would put it better than even odds if you get her laughing before you ask. The line "Girls just wanna have fun" is so true.
You often say always fun and never discipline or humiliation. For us there’s a middle ground, always fun with intense faux discipline and a bit of embarrassment.
ReplyDeleteThat's fine. Just saying, OBB presents an alternative.
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