Asking a Woman If She Would Like to be Spanked

Sorry to disappoint those expecting posts this week. Suffice to say, it's been a whirlwind around here.

I want to revisit the last post. You recall that girl with the alluring eyes and a delicious figure.

The one I would propose to spank if the opportunity presented itself. Two readers reminded me that not all OBB readers could understand the post since they had no experience in asking a woman if she would enjoy a spanking.

Inquiring if a woman might enjoy some OTK time is so natural to me that I forget that spanking is a dark secret harboured by many men. [Men, not women]

I have never understood hiding the desire. It's legal. It's not creepy unless you make it creepy. 

I got on the path to asking after being enlightened by my female cousin. When I was 15, she told me that I was never going to have a girlfriend if I kept being the wallflower at dances. I had to ask them to dance. I screwed up my courage and found that girls were soft and smelled good.  Things could proceed to get more interesting, since they also have hormones. I learned to ask and keep on asking. Thanks, Pam.

Recently on X, a gal posted this picture with the question, Would you slap it or kiss it. I replied I would slap it, slap it several times, and then kiss. Just playful banter between strangers. It elicited several dozen likes. [I use my real name on X]

I find the repartee after asking her until she is snuggled across my lap to be intoxicating. The debrief after a spanking, when some will share intimate thoughts be aphrodisiacal.

OBB has always been about fun. Never discipline. Never humiliation.

I trust this will explain to those who have never spanked how I come to the subject.