I watched this movie without knowing the subject. It will only appeal to submissive women who hunger for anything with a D/S theme. It's a typical role for Kidman. Casting blew the "dom". In no way does he even look the part.
My grade C+.
Not a single comment on today's post, Lingerie for Spanking. Not a one.
Imagine you are 25 and single. It's your third date with her, and you are optimistic that you will "get lucky" tonight. She already knows if you are going to be "lucky." She decided that two days ago. All through dinner, you try to charm her. When she dressed for tonight, she donned these panties. If you knew she was wearing them, you would probably guess how the date was going to end. But, she just sits there in them, looking at you, giving no clues.
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Women know the fascination that men have with panties. In the right circumstances, they enjoy teasing men.
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In my younger days, when I spanked "strange" women, there were usually weeks or months of back-and-forth emails/phone calls on how the first spanking would take place. A few of these were her first adult spanking.
One thing we did not discuss was panties. I wanted to be surprised. I was pretty much assured she would not wear "fuck me black" panties. The most common was "full coverage" in virginal white.
Some were atypical. One gal who was a Disney fan wore panties with cartoon characters on them. Another attached a note to her panties with a yellow sticky.
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Some men think that taking her panties down to bare her bottom will embarrass her. Not at all. Are women embarrassed to show their bodies before sex? Heck no, give them a chance and it will be a performance.
I would sometimes sit in a chair and have her stand before me. It was so much different than anything I had experienced before. Imagine in HS asking a gal you had never even kissed to raise her skirt. No, I can not imagine that. Now, she would willingly pull her skirt to her waist and hold it there while I lowered her panties. Was she embarrassed? Nope. More like she expected it.
I paddled gals like I like to be paddled. That was not enough for some of them. They wanted me to take them to higher falls and push them over.
Some wanted to be punished for some past sin. Under those limited one-time deals, I would take them all the way. Long past tears to the stage where snot comes out of their noses. Where their legs shake uncontrollably. That's where they wanted to be - completely and fully conquered. It was a gift of submission to me, but it was not always appreciated.
A paddling I liked to give would last them maybe a day. The paddling they wanted would last them over a week, physically and mentally. They would report that the marks would start to fade after a week. And that they missed them.
I am just not a sadist.
Perhaps that explains why you don't see pictures of black and blue on OBB.
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After a decade or so, Bacall and I had our spanking routine down to just how we wanted it. She had her toys, and I had mine. Once in a while, she would ask for more than usual or a paddle that she normally would not want. Rarely she could not take even one of her favorite straps. I either had to tone it down or tell her she would just have to power through it.
Her toys in 2012
See the pussy whip? Grin, The batten replaced it.
Her toys in 2017 - Two stingy paddles added
For Openers
Fun Girls
I am going to cut down on F/F spankings. I am tired of them.
For Openers
In the act of being spanked
Done Been Spanked
For Openers
One of those things women do that make life fun
My kind of gal
