
Nothing like a little corner time to give a gal the chance to reflect on the paddling she just got and the paddling she is about to get.
This blog celebrates the erotic side of spanking as long practiced by one married couple. We don't spank for punishment or discipline or any reason other than to supercharge sex. Getting our bottoms toasted sexually arouses us. It's that simple.
Many blog entries will be about Bacall paddling me as I feel F/M play is a topic that is not written about enough, except in fantasy or punishment terms. Bogey and Bacall
My view of the futility of adult spanking as punishment
Women, having the ability for multiple orgasms, cannot be chilled out by masturbation before punishment. A woman must be repentant for a spanking to be of any effect. Some women, self-styled brats, act out to get spanked. They are never really remorseful. They enjoy acting like three year olds throwing a tantrum. They want to be spanked and they have worked a mechanism to make it happen. I wrote about this last November This is Punishment?
Male or female, in both cases we have adults acting out to elicit a punishment normally reserved for children which is followed by making up. They like to be spanked, but need the “cover” of punishment in order for it to be acceptable to them and to their mate.
Western culture is far more accepting of M/F spanking for inappropriate behavior than F/M spanking. Perhaps western culture values women for acting submissive, even if they are in fact dominate. This creates an imbalance in supply and demand. I think there are about as many men, as women, who are fond of being spanked. However, women who grew up acting submissive and seeking a dominate male to look after them find it takes a lot of mind twisting to reverse roles and spank a man. Most will not consider it. They feel it would take something from themselves.
My Bottom Smarts recently listed some new spanking Blogs. I looked at My Thoughts on Spanking & Discipline and learned how the how the "Formal Thank You" helps a HOH relationship. That’s right readers, she advocates a blow job, as a non-sexual act of course, as an appropriate way of expressing thanks after punishment.
All this to say, we all enjoy spanking, but it is a varied activity with colossal differences in tastes. Some I will never understand.
 
 
 
 
The decor reminds me of panhandle Florida condo's.