Her Turn

Giving others pleasure produces the maximum pleasure for ourselves. Don’t you think? We always try to make Christmas a happier time for kids that are not in fortunate circumstances. The smiles on their faces always make us feel good.

I get a comparable high when I can really turn Becall on. Not just sex, but something a little special, that I only attempt a few times a year, so it will always remain special. I did that a few days ago. I told her the night before what I was going to do. She likes that, she chews on it and gets herself revved up.

I told her that I was going to paddle her hard and she was going to have to take it. She was just going to have to cowgirl up, take her licks, not complain and stay in position. I call this a force fantasy. She wants it, but I am forcing her. I am telling her she has no control over it. I am binding her with words.

The next morning I told her again what I was going to do and added that I was going to take her from behind after I had her bottom red hot. I said that I wanted to feel the glowing heat from her ass when I entered her. And with that, I told her to bend over and started putting her paddle to her with some gusto. When her cheeks were rosy, I picked up the red paddle and told the next licks were going to really burn and she was not to move. She asked if she had to take the licks I said yes. She shuddered with delight and surrender. I made sure that the paddle cracked on her bottom. She stayed in position as if held there.

I put the paddle down where she could see it and told her that she might get more licks. I then told her to get on her hands and knees and put her bottom up high. I entered her. This is our fav position and we tend to go at fast and furious. If I get it right she comes about two strokes before I do. If her first words after climax come out a few octaves lower, I know I got it right. I got it right.



This is a reasonable representation of what Becall looked like when we married. No, this one is not her, it just reminds me of her bubble bottom. You have seen her bottom here before.

Two-On-One

I continue to write about women spanking men [and vice versa] for mutual pleasure. No lessons to be learned, no behavior to atone for. We are adults and we treat each other with respect. Is there anyone else out there in such a situation? If so, write us or start a Blog. There must be other couples who enjoy spanking without punishment as a reason. FYI, anonymous comments leave no trace of who or where you are.

Two on One

Many males who like to bottom, are keen to be spanked by more than one woman at the same time. Perhaps it is a limb of the male fantasy of making it with twins? I have been spanked by two woman – several times. For most of the occasions, Becall was one of the women on deck. An interesting part of it to me, was that they instantly empower each other. What one does not think of the other will. Sisterhood is terrific!

There is something about a woman you do not know all that well, taking charge and unbuckling your belt like she does it everyday. Then pulling your pants and underwear down to your ankles and telling you to step out of them. I sure hope that all the women I have done this to, enjoyed it half as much as I have enjoyed having it done to me.

The two-on-one spankings I have gotten have always gone on a little longer than I prefer, but you have to allow for the simple fact that if one gives x licks, the other is going to want equal time. I learned not to leave many toys out on these occasions, else it can turn into a paddle party.

At one party, a woman I asked to play with us was game, but a tad reluctant. Later I saw her and Becall talking and they were both smiling and laughing. It was not long before Becall found me and let me know they were ready for me. I had spanked this woman before and so I felt we were on comfortable terms. After they had me pretty much nude, maybe a t-shirt, I said it was not fair that they had all their clothes on. No problem, they got down to bra and panties. This woman always wore the finest lingerie and this time was no exception. And Becall is certainly no slouch in that department. I was in heaven.

I don’t recall all of the details of the paddling, but it was fun for all of us.

When they deemed my bottom sufficiently red, the fun continued in another direction. The oil came out and the stroking began. They each wanted to demonstrate their own unique styles for bringing a man to orgasm. While one was pumping me, the other was fondling the boys or probing my prostate. I am always dimly aware that just before I come they are alert to see how far the ejaculate will go.

I freely admit that not all two-on-one sessions have gone well. The simple fact is that most men and women do not know how to spank. Skeptical? Far too many spanking films show spankers employing techniques that can be harmful and painful. Such as hitting too high and on the sides. If the “pros” don’t know, it’s little wonder that amateurs don’t know how to spank. So yes, I have stopped a few sessions when the woman refused to spank the meaty section of my bottom after being cautioned. Hitting just anywhere, shows they don’t really give a damn and are just going through the motions. They may get away with such with their husbands, but I don’t tolerate it.

One recent two-on-one session that did go well was with an old friend, who after a divorce moved half-way across the country from us. She has since remarried and seems to really be enjoying her life, perhaps for the first time in her life. We had switched in the past, but we did not expect to play during this brief visit. We had never met her husband and had no idea about his thoughts on such matters. “You want to get naked with my wife?” He does not switch, but he gave Becall a fine spanking and Becall and Becky certainly had some fun with me.



Spanked Hubby thinks a two-on-one spanking might help him be more submissive. Five-on-one would not get me submissive, but what-the-hey, I am willing to try it.

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One On Two?

This is a fantasy I have never lived - one woman spanks both Becall and I. Perhaps a neighbor? She knows we like spanking and every so often she calls and tells us to “get ready” and she comes over and reddens our bottoms. Becall would do this, she is an equal opportunity spanker. Both males and females know what it feels like to have her wielding a paddle behind them.

The drawing illustrates what I have in mind, sans the tears. Recall that we only spank for fun. The skin may be red, but it is exactly like we want it.

Being Sent For The Paddle

This is post number 100!

Bonnie asked the question: Asking a spankee to retrieve an implement is a well-known and often celebrated ritual. There is something unnerving about having to locate, pick up, examine, carry, and deliver the very object that will soon be applied to one's bottom.

We did not get a chance to post a response before the comments were summarized, but I thought it was a significant question and I wanted to post an expanded response.

Being sent for the paddle, does nothing for Becall. She prefers to pick out the toys she wants used on her, to ensure she gets what she wants when she wants it. I am of the same mind. Although every now and then, I do want her to pick the paddles she wants to use on me.

With one woman that I paddle, I sometimes put out all the paddles and let her select. She will take a few minutes studying them and without fail, select a big one for her petite bottom. I never fail to put her selection to good use. I don’t hold back a bit. It works for both of us.

As a kid, having to cut your own switch was a tried and true method of pre-punishment. My stomach did flips, my knees went wobbly and the tears started before the first cut of the switch landed on my legs.

Being sent for the paddle was used in my grade school. My earliest recollection is when I was in the first grade. I was sent to the school principal, for causing some disturbance in the classroom. After a lecture, she sent me to ask the lunchroom supervisor for the paddle. I later learned that she had several paddles in her office, but that she liked to use this method to humiliate kids. It worked, since I was in tears when I asked the supervisor for the paddle.

After returning the paddle to her, she sent me to the boys' bathroom to wait on her. This was another way to humble me, since she always waited until after my class had a bathroom break, until she would attend to me. The other boys would figure out why I could not leave the bathroom and kid me about it and I would feel even weaker in the knees, dreading what I knew was coming.

That was then. I no longer am capable of getting such feelings before or during a paddling. I suppose the difference is that I am in control of my fate.

I have thought about being sent for the paddle in a fantasy spanking community. In this neighborhood, all of your neighbors would share your percussive interests. Imagine being sent to a neighbor to get a paddle or to get a paddling. Picture the kidding that could take place. Can you see in your mind’s eye having to display your bottom when you returned the paddle?

PS we still think My Bottom Smarts is the most intelligent and original spanking Blog out there. I wish I could write spanking stories like she does. Hot, hot, hot.

Four Sets of Eight

I was well toasted this morning. I was needy for a spanking and some frenetic sex. So was Becall. I asked for eight on the front of my legs with batten, followed by eight each with the Myrtlewood paddle, pine paddle and the ever fashionable red paddle. She had me OTK for the Myrtlewood. [They were no very hard. Afterwards, she said she did not have that good of angle. Hmmm and so why did she not get the right angle before proceeding. I will discuss that with her in a day or two]

She made up for the first set, with the pine paddle. She had me bend over the couch and laid them on with gusto.

I was back over her lap for the final eight with the red paddle. No surprise, she delivered them fast.

We then made the double humped monster and we both came quickly.

I wish that I could write torrid spanking sex scenes like Bonnie, but it’s just not in me.

More the next time we get some bandwidth.

This one is for Carly

My hat is off to Carly at Bramblebush. She is showcasing her photography, taken by her hubbie, of her bottom.

All very tastefully done.

Photographs and Men and Women

It is raining. It has been raining for two days. It is forecast to rain for a few more. I do not have internet access in this isolated district, but I do have plenty of solar power to run the computer. So this will be a long post. I hope you find something of interest in it.

Photographs of men spanking women can have appeal to both genders. A man can imagine himself spanking the woman as easily as a woman can insert herself into the photograph and be spanked by the handsome man.

I am doubtful that photographs of women spanking men are equally admired by both genders. Men that do not bottom pan them, as do most women. I think that most of this inequality is nothing more than the reflection of our culture that men should be dominate, at least in certain situations. The thought of a woman inflicting what our society views as juvenile punishment to a man, for even a transitory period, is simply beyond the views of nearly every woman. Clearly, what is OK for the goose, is not favorably accepted to be given to the gander.

We have known several couples where each switched; but precious few couples who switch with each other. And even those that do seem to have some problems with it. I have tried to explore this on several online forums from time-to-time, but I have not gotten much feedback on it. The most common response is a disbelief that it can be rewarding to both of us. The accepted norm for switch couples is switch with others, to preserve the traditional dominate/submissive roles in their own relationship.

This makes us exceedingly unique and probably bizarre to most. We will live with it as we are quite happy.

Yes, sometime Becall wants it to be all about her. That’s fine, I understand. I know her buttons and I push them. I am naturally dominate and gleefully sadistic. She is willingly submissive and takes what I give. It’s a force fantasy for her. As soon as we are done, she reverts to her normal demeanor, which is decidedly not subservient. [Think of the diplomacy of an Airborne regiment, if you were to cross her] Which suits me fine. I could not have a relationship with a woman who could not take care of herself, who wanted me to make all the decisions.

If you have read this far, you wondering where the visual treats are.

OK, here is one we both like. If I am right, you can see yourself as one of the people in the picture. The woman seems to project a little defiance, but at the same time will be delighted to bend over the bench and feel the cane.





The next picture will appeal to many males who bottom. However, I suspect the only women that will find it appealing are those infinitesimal few that really enjoy spanking a man.

The picture both pulls me in and pushes me back. It would have more appeal to me if she had even a modest smile. I know she is looking stern for a reason, but that is not how I play. Still, it’s great outfit, fitted blouse, short skirt – right out of the early 70’s. She sure looks like she knows how to use that serious looking paddle. Perhaps she would consent to smile a little and give me a trial paddling?

Traveling Again

We are traveling again and we will be in some "dark" places where there is no cell coverage. So posts will be irregular for the next few months. So if we can not post, you can post comments. Why not? Ask questions. Just don't expect a response soon.

If you had been at an undisclosed location in New Mexico Saturday you might have heard Becall and I taking turns bending over.

This lass has some attractive panties and a decent bottom. Don't you think?