Today, you will have to endure the fourth edition of views of woman’s laps. Note to our five female readers, this will be the final edition.
Warning, two of the subjects today are armed. So what you see is not all in your mind.
Number 1 is going to be up ended and spanked by me.
Number 2 would see me going out the back door.
Number 3 interests me. Yes, I would like to sample the application of her paddle.
SpankedByMylady features frequent pictures of Cora in attractive girdles and hose. We share with them an appreciation of lingerie.
Here is Cora with a glimpse of her stocking top below her skirt line.
I know I would like to follow her up the stairs and bend over for a few pops of her paddle.
Being a switch, I also like to paddle women in girdles. This one would suit me nicely.
We went panty girdle shopping in Mexico last week. Some of their panty girdles have pockets in the front for concealing money. Never seen that in the states. Anyway, we picked up three pair and we have christened two of them. I paddled Bacall in a bright red one and she paddled me in a beige one. It is an inexpensive way to indulge a fetish and have a little fun. It also helps that we wear the same size.
The more I think about it, the more I think humiliation of a child of primary school age can be one path that leads being a spanko. I am not suggesting it is the only way and there is no way I can prove it even in my case. But, it seems reasonable.
In our post Why Do You Like To Be Spanked, it was advanced that fear and humiliation are so powerful they can become sexually linked. I know that I feared being paddled as a kid. I know that it was humiliating when other kids knew I was paddled. Consider that hormones that are released in the womb determine both physical attributes, the way are able to reason and how we are able to deal with life; it makes sense to me that hormones released due to fear or humiliation can also affect us after we are born.
In the second grade I got the ultimate humiliation. My in school behavior was not controlled by paddling so the teacher conspired with my mother and got a cloth diaper. When I acted up, she took me to the cloak room and put the diaper on me. Then I had to stand before the class and pull down my pants so the class could all see me in a diaper. Is that not one of the most despicable things you have ever heard? Not discipline, but child abuse.
After the guffaws settled down, I was taken back to the cloak room and paddled on the bare bottom. Of course the whole class could hear. Can you imagine having to see these same kids every day? Some of them through the twelfth grade?
Did it cure my behavior? NO. I was ADD. But that was something that I did not know about until I was almost 40.
Can you imagine a good relationship with me Mother after that? Can you understand why to this day, I don’t automatically respect people in positions of authority the way you might.
I am finally old enough to admit this happened to me.
The reasons to leave Blogger has gone up by one. Their new word verification makes leaving comments a real hassle. Here is an example I encountered this morning.
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Do you recall such hi-jinx when you were a teenager? I sure do. The lasses were such teases. No camera’s then, but she remains etched in my mind. This could have been the gal at the Hollywood Pool. Where did she get off to? I was the tall gangly guy with pimples. Call me!
Her bottom is so spankable.
Jacqueline Omerta is a psychologist, pro-domme, wife, and self-confessed spanko. She is the author of "You Would If You Loved Him" written to help women understand the needs of submissive men.
The reasons why someone likes to be spanked may be as varied as the ways there are to be spanked. All of us have wondered where our fetish comes from.
Something Mrs. Omerta said makes some sense to me. She said that fear and humiliation are so powerful it can become sexually linked. I know that I feared being paddled as a kid. I know that it was humiliating when other kids knew I was paddled.
I am sure you know of people who because of a prior trauma where fear or stress, justified or not, has rendered them incapable of leading a normal life. Fear causes the release all sorts of hormones. So those hormones coursing through our bodies at a tender age could be one reason that some of us come to relish being spanked.
I will never forget the fear that erupted in me every time I was sentenced to a paddling. Normally there was a wait from the time of the sentence to the execution. A time that I stewed in my own juices, hormones, so to speak. If others knew that I was to be paddled or found out about it later, that made it all the worse for me.
So perhaps fear and humiliation made me a spanko? It’s the best theory I have heard that fits me. Or maybe that’s just psycho mumbo-jumbo?
