Foolishness since 2007

Foolishness since 2007
Foolishness since 2007

Monday, October 1, 2018

Most Male Switches Are Really Bottoms

First, before I get all serious, have you seen this spanking coloring book? Great stocking stuffer.


I asked a woman who has switched with several men about her experiences.

I do have some experience spanking men. It's not that I didn't like it, but that once that Genie was out of the bottle, it wouldn't go back in. I would wind up being the spanker rather than the spankee most of the time. Most men that I've spanked, got on my nerves after a while. They became too needy. I found myself wanting to really hurt them and I didn't like that feeling. I didn't, of course, but the urge was there. 

I suppose I lost respect for them, and in turn, I didn't enjoy being spanked by them any longer (not that it happened that often after it started. I felt as they were rushing through my spanking to get to theirs). 

That folks is the prime reason men have problems finding a woman to spank them. Men before them have poisoned the well. This is not the first time I have heard women's honest feelings about switching.  Male switches tend to morph into bottoms at the first opportunity.

8 comments:

  1. I can see her point, it's too bad it goes that way.
    Perhaps, those men really were not switches. Instead, they were calling themselves "switches" to find a spanking partner, but in reality, they were looking for an FLR.
    I'm just trying to look at all sides of the picture.

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  2. I suspect you are right, most are subs and seek an FLR. This is the only blog I know of that does not cater to subs. How many do? Dozens, thousands if you count tumblr blogs.

    Back when I ran project teams, it was the subs, male and female, that took up most of my time. I seemed to always draw one in every group. Always drama, someone was always being mean to them. The rest of the group would eye roll, pick up the slack and life would go on.

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    1. On the projects, it just kills me how someone can just sit on the sideline with nothing or close to nothing to do, while others are madly scrambling to knock out the tasks. Including working early, late, through lunches and weekends. Offer to help? Not a chance, ugh.
      Reminded me of the saying; "three useless thing, balls on a priest, tits on a nun and the slacker[s]".

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  3. I must be one of the exceptions. I’ve always considered myself an equal spanking opportunist.
    What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.

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  4. I must admit, if my wife wanted me to spank her, I would, and I would try to make it as glorious an experience as it is for me.

    Yorkie

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    1. Bacall never suggested that I spank her. I spanked every gal I dated. Always playful. If that was OK, I went farther. That's the way it was with her, except it moved faster.

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