I sometimes visit a social media site that is supposed to be spanking oriented. As time has passed, and more join, the focus has drifted. Somehow the really odd types always come late to the party. Anyhow, there is always good natured banter about the men spanking the women. Guess what? I have not noticed a single instance of a woman playfully threatening to spank a man. Why is that?
My guess is that if they did they would be deluged with men screaming Spank Me. Who would want that?
I think that is why you see captioned pictures of women telling men how they are going to get spanked. Men need this and since it not happening for them in real life they type the words they want women to say to them on pictures. Harmless, but rather sad. Life is so not fair.
So glad it worked out for me to marry a switch.