I have reached an age where erections don’t happen like they did when I was on the other side of 35. I need some stimulation. Paddling Bacall never fails, not does Bacall paddling me. But, the days of getting hard on a whim or getting hard more than once a day is a distant memory.
We all tend to see things as who we are. I see spanking and fun and sexy. So through my glasses, there is a lot in the spanking world that I will never understand.
Given that I have always viewed that sex is not something to be put off and every that every opportunity missed is wasted, it’s really difficult for me to relate to men who want to be locked up in a penis cage and denied orgasm except on rare occasions. But, what the hey, it’s their life. I just wish I could have the orgasms they are tossing away. I hear about carbon credits, I would like to buy a gross of orgasm credits from those who don’t want them.
I do not get men who want to have their erection spanked away. Don’t understand a woman who wants to spank one away either. I can understand those who want to be spanked as punishment not wanting an erection during the spanking as that’s prima facie evidence that the spanking is enjoyable. But, otherwise, it is lost on me.
I asked why anyone would want their erection spanked away on another blog and got this reply spanking is a plateau above sex. I can not fathom that.
I have known some women who desired to behave like a three year old. Yes, full blown temper tantrums. They want to be punished like an impudent, petulant child. No half measures either, you had to work up a sweat in punishing them or the tantrum would continue. Something was missing in their lives. They had a fanatical need to be cared for and to be held accountable. I did not understand it then, even less so now.
Humans are weird and wonderful lot. I want to be a dog in my next life.