I am a long time fan of Erica’s Blog. Nothing I say here should in any way be taken as a negative about her or her Blog. Got that?
She is a bottom, she does not top. That’s plain enough to me, but not to thousands of men. In her recent Blog she admits she does not like to see men being spanked. That’s equally understandable to me. I don’t care to see other men spanked either and I have left the room when that happened.
I commented on her Blog that I think she is like 90% of women who like to be spanked, they do not want to spank men. They especially do not want to think about spanking the man who spanks them.
You must understand that most female bottoms have been chewing on being spanked by a real man since they were five. Real men are not spanked, most especially by the woman they spank. The Knight in Shining Armor does not unveil his bottom. That would be more Ying than there is Yang to cover it.
At parties, I never admit that I like to have my bottom spanked, because I know half of the women would suddenly be too busy, too sore, to play with me. Why? Simply because they don’t want to deal with the chance that I would ask for reciprocation.
One of the comments on Erica’s Blog was Male submissiveness makes me cringe. That’s is the way it is guys. You are wasting time and looking like a fool when you ask a female submissive to be dominate. Yes, yes, I know there are RARE exceptions.
Becall and I are able to switch probably because we both have dominate personalities.