I love spanking. But, I do not understand DD for men or women. I have written about that subject several times. I just cannot imagine adults consistently engaging in behavior that would “earn” them a spanking. Yes, I have known women that acted out to get spanked. The spankings did not deter future tantrums. I suppose it is the same with some men.
The author of the popular Blog Spanked Hubby, earns spankings from his wife. They then make up and enjoy sex. I think I understand how that works. It’s a subterfuge, but if it makes them happy, good for them.
He writes of one couple at a spanking party. This I cannot get, as it seems the spanking was not fun at any time. Perhaps he is a true masochistic?
Can you explain it to me?