Our Bottoms Burn

Persian Slave Princess - II

2012-02-01T04:46:00.000-06:00

After posting a similar picture, I tripped over this one. Don’t you think that any lass who wears such an outfit is begging for a spanking? I do. So does Bacall and she wants it to be her.

In The Louisiana Swamps

2012-01-30T04:44:00.000-06:00

We stopped for a few days in Cajun country. For those across the pond, who might not know, southern Louisiana has quite a few French-speakers from Acadia in what are now the Canadian Maritime provinces. They have had a pronounced effect on the local culture and cuisine. Unique in the States.

So we were taking a nature walk and came upon this lass. I would have asked if she was Cajun, but I could not get a word out of my mouth. Must be French bread in the basket. You did see the basket didn’t you?

Isn’t nature grand?

In The Fourth Grade

2012-01-27T05:50:00.000-06:00

I was personally acquainted with the paddle from the first grade on. When I was in the fourth grade, I was walking down the hall during class and when I passed the sixth grade room, I saw a girl giving herself swats with a paddle like this one.

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I was mesmerized. The teacher was supervising and the whole class was watching. I froze and watched until I felt I would be caught the next second.

Who she was or what she did I never found out.

Highly Spankable

2012-01-25T05:49:00.000-06:00

I have posted pictures of this lass before. I found a folder of her last week and decided to share a few more.

Her bottom had the quickest recovery time I have ever seen. From red to pink in seconds. Never bruised.

No secrets. Bacall knows her well.

A Few Well Chosen Words

2012-01-23T05:48:00.000-06:00

A few well chosen words spoken softly, but firmly, in a lasses ear can melt her into submission.

That’s what I see in this picture from Secretary. The mental part is so important.

The Real Stars Dancing

2012-01-20T06:38:00.000-06:00

I deem Dancing With The Stars as not worthy of my attention. OK, I am an elitist.

My favorite romantic dance scene was in the 1955 movie Picnic to the song Moonglow. Hal is the everyman and Madge is trapped inside her pretty face. I can not hear the song without thinking of that scene. Raw, sizzling, sexy.

You can watch the trailer from here which has a few seconds of the dance scene. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0048491/

The song Moonglow:

My absolute favorite dance scene was in Swing Time. That was class. Always remember that Ginger did every step Fred did, backwards and in heels. Watch the scene here. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mxPgplMujzQ&feature=related

Where are the spanking references? None that I know of today. We hope that you all have a great weekend.

The Boat Paddle

2012-01-18T05:22:00.000-06:00

This was one of the pictures that was claimed to be copy-righted. Since I took it I am posting it again. Not great quality. It was taken before digital age.

She was about 35 at the time. The redness was caused by a small boat paddle, partially seen on the bed.

School Girls

2012-01-16T05:20:00.000-06:00

It’s Monday. I don’t have a post ready, so I am falling back on a picture post. At least some of the guys will like it.

It’s been awhile since I was in school, but I feel the need to go back. I think I need remedial instruction.

Could she live in my locker?

I have always loved a tease.

You knew these two, didn’t you? They were always up to some mischief. But they never got caught.

For Tan Line Lovers

2012-01-13T06:14:00.000-06:00

Something to make you feel warm during the winter.

Random notes

We are headed from warmer climes today. Posting may be erratic at times.

We have not described our spankings here of late, but they continue. Last Thursday, we paddled each other and Bacall decided we should do it again the next day. And so we did.

She has not been reading the Blog and missed her thigh fry.

I have not posted many spanking pictures since the deal with the copyright people a month or so back. There are so many Tumblr sites now, posting pictures here is almost a waste.

I usually have a dozen or so posts almost ready to upload. The inventory is down. Perhaps a reader will make a comment on something that will give me an idea for a post.

The hottest spanking story I have read in years was at Disciplined Behavior.

Persian Slave Princess

2012-01-11T06:13:00.000-06:00

Bacall enjoys force fantasies as in Please don’t throw me in that briar patch. There is one scene she calls Persian Slave Princess. The princess has been kidnapped, but her master is kind and gentle and she won over to him, but she refuses to bend to his will without protest.

She has an outfit for this scene. This is not it, but it’s close.

Dress up can be fun!

Bent Over Again

2012-01-09T06:10:00.000-06:00

Regular reader Tex poses these questions.

Do you prefer the classic legs together pose of the first picture, rather than the legs spread position of the second pic? The appeal of the feminine behind just seems a lot sexier with a woman bent well over and legs still together... at least to me.

I like to have the woman adjust her position how ever well she may present her bottom, I like to make little changes, if only to prolong what is coming. For both of us.

How about paddling the male bottom? Legs closed... or slightly open?

Hoohah blurred to meet our posting criteria. This is a spanking Blog. If you need to see parts there are hundreds of Tumblr sites.

Moving To Bavaria

2012-01-06T05:20:00.000-06:00

Some advertising is so effective. Greta and Heidi, I suppose. Those shorts are made for paddling. I am sold. I bought my ticket.

Have a great weekend. Over and out

Pegging

2012-01-04T05:16:00.000-06:00

Today, I am going to post about something of which I have little knowledge. That’s not unusual for me. I do it all the time.

I think it was a post by Consensual Spanking about pegging that led me to other sites where pegging is discussed and pictured.

Personal background: I was mildly anal erotic until I was 30-something. It just left me. I never considered pegging. I don’t think I even knew about it. A finger on my anus near climax created fireworks for me. Bacall did this until one day she said she had never done it before and did not want to do it now. OK, I had been hallucinating.

Bacall considers the anus a sacred orifice. Nothing goes up there. She put off a colonoscopy for almost a decade. Then gripped about it almost every day for two months until the day of the procedure.

Some observations on pegging:

The women in the pictures I saw are of two types. The ones on the commercial sites are snarling and menacing. They must appeal to men who want to be humiliated and forced to accept the probe. The men seem or feign to be in distress. I have no interest there. I get all the distress I can handle reading the newspaper.

The majority of the pictures I saw were of girls-next-door who were not at all ashamed being photographed wearing their strap-ons. Indeed, most of them seemed to proud of having a rigid protuberance.

And unlike amateur spanking pictures, I saw lots of smiling faces.

I find this interesting. Most of us hide our faces in spanking pictures, male or female, top or bottom. [Yes, the bottom’s face is necessarily hidden from the camera] Yet, in pegging pictures men and especially women are not camera shy. I wonder what the difference is? Any thoughts?

Second, I found myself drawn into a short clip of a woman mounting her mate. He was knees and head on the bed. She entered him and began pumping away without a pause. Just like my annual prostate exam, in and out before I know it. Watching her thrusting was mesmerizing. Are women better thrusters than men or was it her dressed in garter belt and heels with her bubble butt moving rhythmically that captured me?

Third observation: Most of the dicks were semi-rigid. If it feels so good, why not rigid?

Last, there seems to be a fashion thing to strap-on’s. Lots of colors and styles.

For Bacall

2012-01-02T05:12:00.000-06:00

When you see this my dear. It’s time for a thigh fry.

The crop is in the closet. Bring it to me.

Happy New Year

Showing Off Her Plant

2011-12-29T05:23:00.000-06:00

WFT!

I know men are supposed to see this and think she is no nonsense woman who will cane them across the desk.

What I see is a cheesy plant in a cheesy jar on a cheesy desk and there is no space to bend over because of the plant.

Humiliation

2011-12-27T05:26:00.001-06:00

This post was inspired by Kaelah’s recent post.

I think some degree of humiliation is desired by some tops and bottoms. It’s mutually beneficial when both desire the same. Bacall and I don’t happen to need it. Not sure if there is anything that would humiliate us. We are rather comfortable within our skin. If we did not want our grandkids to know more about us than they need to know, you would see pictures of us.

It could be that something that would have humiliated/embarrassed me at some point in my life no longer would. One of my first instances of preadolescent body embarrassment was when I was changing into my swim trunks on our houseboat. A family friend happened into the common cabin area while I had my pants down and I was mortified that she could see my bare bottom which I was trying to cover. As she retreated from the area, she remarked that it was my other side I should be covering. That was an epiphany for me.

All of my young life women, Mother and teachers, had been interested in my backside. I can not say I had sexual feelings about my bottom, but I knew I did not like female attention to it as it was always painful.

I tried to humiliate/embarrass some women I have spanked. It did not always work as they were blasé about exposing themselves in say the diaper position. With others I tried public nudity, flogging before a group. Nope, they reveled in being nude and showing they could take whatever was handed out. A few times, I was able to take them where they wanted to go, but it took careful listening, pondering and thoughtful action.

When I was 20-something, I would have been highly embarrassed if anyone, other than Bacall, knew that I liked to don panties. That was much more of a secret than my enjoyment of being paddled. Now, it not a big deal with me as I have found that women are accepting of the practice. Evidently, they have known men who wear panties and are inured to it?

The only paddling position that gives me a little embarrassment is knees and head on the floor with her standing over me.

It’s hard to get to an Alpha.

I would like to talk with a large group of women who have had extensive dating experience about their experiences with men who like to wear panties and be spanked. I would think I would need to talk to all age groups about this. Anyone out there that can write and obtain a research grant for me to do this?

Tennis Anyone?

2011-12-23T05:55:00.000-06:00

I was never very good on the court. Of course, I was never backing her up either. This picture sure does create desire in me. Will Santa leave her under the tree for me?

Merry Christmas

Playmate or Domme

2011-12-21T05:51:00.000-06:00

Same lass. Same bed. Your choice.

When offered a choice, I choose both.

Thanks, But I Really Don’t Care To See Your Hoohah

2011-12-19T05:50:00.000-06:00

I came of age when Playboy was young. The girls were attractive, the parts were round and perky and everything was air brushed to exquisite perfection. Their plumbing was never depicted. A competitor magazine later did show full frontal nudity, but as I recall the legs were not spread and muffs were still in style.

It’s a new world now. I think every woman under 40 has her hoohah on the web. Usually with her legs spread, so one can imagine whatever folks who like this sort of thing like to imagine. I just scroll down.

I see this more and more on commercial spanking sites. Guess that’s why I retreat when I see it’s a commercial site. The situations are unreal, the women not all that attractive, they are being spanked for some flimsy reason, and spanked poorly. There they are with their tats and hoohah. Waxing gives women the adolescent look.

I will not be around when the now 25 year old woman’s kids find pictures of Mom with her legs spread. The kids will know for sure where they came from.

Curious to me is that women will show their faces along with their hoohah, but not their faces when being spanked. Explain that.

What is sexy to me

The Christmas Spoon

2011-12-18T11:56:00.001-06:00

We had a friend that made us a wooden spoon with Santa's face on the bowl. It has been a favorite toy since we received it over ten years ago. It hangs on the mantle with our Christmas stockings and is used throughout the Christmas season.

This morning seemed like to good time to get into that fun Christmas feeling. Being in a playful mood, we both dressed in red, after all it's Christmas and our bottoms would soon be the same delightful color. I picked out our toys - the Santa spoon and the red paddle for both of us and then each of our favorite paddles. First Santa popped our bottoms for a few minutes, then Bogey used my favorite paddle on me and I used his favorite on him. We had a break for cuddling in between each paddle. Then came the favorite/dreaded red paddle. As mentioned in many other post, we have had the red paddle for many many years. It endures and does not lose it's sting. It was a fun and delightful way to play this morning.

Our paddle making friend recently passed away, so in his honor, "Merry Christmas and Many Spanks".

Then and Now

2011-12-16T05:39:00.000-06:00

Posted without comment for someone’s Blog that we all enjoy.

Pain and Pleasure

2011-12-14T05:37:00.000-06:00

A regular reader sent this picture.

I judged that it was not Monica, but the result of a man being spanked OTK and having a happy ending.

I wrote him back and said this is another situation where I am not with the mainstream bottoms. I could never come from a spanking. In fact, I lose my bone when I go OTK. I know this is a favorite of men from reading stories and listening to women talk about getting come on their skirts. It's just not me.

He replied: I wonder if it IS mainstream? Do all guys that enjoy getting spanked always get an erection before or during? I guess I'm not in that group since I seem to get aroused "mentally" rather than physically before or during a spanking. I can watch a spanking or think about getting spanked or giving a spanking and get turned on physically but when it comes to getting a boner right before going over the female lap it has rarely happened.

I guess my query is whether there are two types of spanko's... those that have a physical, sexual reaction to spanking... and those that have an emotional one. What role does sexual pain play, I wonder? Do you have to be at least somewhat masochistic to sexually enjoy getting a painful spanking? I know if I did sprout a boner before a spanking because of the sexually charged atmosphere, there's just no way I can imagine that I would keep it once the paddle or hairbrush began to introduce itself to my backside. For me maybe, I guess it's the "thought" of pain rather than the actual pain, that's sexy. I don't know... it's one of the mysteries of TTWD that I still don't have a good answer for. Feel free to enlighten me... please! LOL

Can any readers shed some light on this topic?

The Woodshed

2011-12-12T05:00:00.000-06:00

In our new place, there is not enough enclosed storage for all of our tools. So we have acquired a storage shed – or what we will call the wood shed. We have always wanted a wood shed and we found one with a decent look.

I wonder whose panties are hanging on the door?

The back yard is private so one can be sent to and from the shed undressed. Ummm delicious.

An ideal woodshed

WTF - Not Spanking, Maybe Not Sex

2011-12-09T05:41:00.000-06:00

Are they having a chat? Is she bored? Thinking of what to fix for dinner? Wondering if she won the lottery?

One way to while away an afternoon I suppose. But, shouldn’t one of them put a little enthusiasm into it?

This concludes your art history class for the week. Enjoy your weekend.

Welcome New Followers

2011-12-08T09:37:00.001-06:00

We wanted to welcome the new followers of OBB. We hope you will enjoy some of what you see here.

If I click on a Follower Icon, it teases me with the option to send a private message. When I try it, it tells me I can’t because of…well, I don’t understand why. I am signed in, but… oh well, Hi!

To those that comment here, thanks. To those that comment with an email address, you know that we often respond to your comments directly.

I hope that returning to this template makes commenting easier for everyone.

I took all the comments about moving Wordpress and decided that YOU were right. It might not be worth it.

My Memory Of Bacall

2011-12-07T07:39:00.000-06:00

I was enjoying reading Zelle’s Blog while slurping my first coffee and I noticed her top was down. I thought I don't think she has posted pictures like that before. And then I thought I saw a mic and thought Oh boy there will be a video clip. Well, what I thought was a mic was another type of electro-mechanical device. I wrote her that I thought it was great that she felt feel enough free to put it all out there. She plays like we do. Spanking is sexual. No time for that other stuff.

Anywho, her post made me recall something that happened long ago, in another universe, Bacall was being flogged before an audience of close friends. Everyone was around the fire enjoying it's
warmth while she was enjoying an all altogether different source of
warmth. She was bound to the wall but she was most definitely enjoying herself as I had never heard before. When she was turned facing us, I could see in her eyes that she was in a high state of arousal. I figured she was really enjoying the way the guy was handling her.

Shortly, another man that she had spent a long time with before dinner told me that he had put a remote control vibrator on her and he had the control in his pocket. Ah, that explained Miss Bright Eyes
reaction to the flogger.

Has she changed over the years? This morning Bacall was bent over wiggling and singing How do you like it? More, more, more!
Very disgraceful of her don’t you think?

Breaking Paddles - II

2011-12-06T16:55:00.001-06:00

Bacall got around to reading the post. Amazing, she had something to say about it. It’s always rare, but appreciated, when Bacall writes.

I must comment on the broken paddle. The first paddle pop stung. So while I prepared myself mentally for next pop, something strange happens. I hear the wind whistling through the holes, I feel something touch my bottom, but ever so lightly. Then I hear, "You broke the paddle!" Of course, I turned and looked. It was lying on the floor and the handle was in his hand. He had an look on his face like he just couldn't believe it. There was lots of laughing and as reported, I as was very proud. Then he fixed the paddle, made the handle very strong and I haven't laughed any more.

Note: The day she stops laughing will be her last.

Bacall Paddles Me OTK

2011-12-05T05:37:00.000-06:00

Last week, Bacall hinted, again, that she was in the mood to paddle me OTK. This happens 3/4 times a year. Thankfully no more. So I got into the spirit and got out the glycerin to moisten my bottom. She got even more into the spirit by getting out a leather slapper with a steel reinforcer in it to use on my thighs.

After setting my legs on fire, I went OTK. She used her fav otk paddle, the red one, from our early marriage days. It has not lost a bit of sting. Thankfully, she paddled at a moderate pace and not too hard. I really tried to take it, I hoped to make it to 30 licks. She says I bailed at 22.

Wordpress users commenting on Blogger

2011-12-02T16:15:00.001-06:00

I find it easy to comment on Wordpress Blogs. It remembers the information I used and fills in it for me.

For those Wordpress users that comment on Blogger, may I suggest something that should make the process simple for you. Get a Blogger ID. You don’t have to have a Blog to have a Blogger ID. You can be signed into Wordpress and Blogger at the same time, ditto Yahoo, etc.

Have a great weekend. Sunny and 70 here.

Breaking Paddles

2011-12-02T05:24:00.000-06:00

Bonnie commented on a recent post about paddles. The gal was smiling and holding a long narrow paddle.

Hi Bogey,

I believe if you look carefully at the photo of the smiling woman, you will see the reason for her good humor. The paddle she is holding has split right down the center, presumably while assaulting her posterior. At this point, barring a backup paddle, the spanking is over and she has achieved a rare victory over a fierce foe.

There is definitely a feeling of accomplishment associated with proving oneself tougher than a wooden spanking paddle. For me, the only downside is that Randy is likely to select a thicker, heavier, and more painful implement for next time.

Hugs, Bonnie

Thanks for reminding me of this Bonnie. I think Erica has posted about her delight in breaking paddles on more than once occasion. Bacall does not have Erica’s iron bottom, but she delights in breaking paddles. I recall Bacall’s “admiration” of the Sherriff’s paddle that was sold by Raven Hill. With the large surface area and holes, it looked formidable, but it proved flimsy.

Picture of us, taken by us

On it’s first use, she bent over the couch and I whooshed it around to get her reaction to the air going through the holes. She clinched. I popped her and she squealed. Then she said I thought that it was going to sting, but it didn’t. I wound up and popped her again, but there was no sound. The handle had separated from the blade. Fortunately, we had backups.

Comments here are always appreciated and often led to a future post.

Google or Wordpress

2011-12-01T15:48:00.001-06:00

I have heard from two folks that Google seems to make it hard for Wordpress users to comment.

I have no allegiance to the fine folks at Google. Should we change?

What Happened?

2011-11-30T05:22:00.000-06:00

This is what I know so far.

Google sent me a warning note saying that OBB had been reported for posting copyrighted pictures. Four pictures were listed and they removed them. [I had already deleted a few dozen more that had been identified to me as being copyrighted]

Interestingly, of the four pictures cited, two were from the long distant B&W era and I really really doubt that anyone was claiming them. A third picture was one I took! I think that demonstrates the broad brush methods of the firm DMCA Enforcers, LLC, which represents the alleged copy-right holders. I say alleged, as many of the pictures did NOT have a water mark.

I have had more thoughts about Kelly Payne. DMCA Enforcers was especially adamant about Kelly wanting us off-the-air. After a few days I recalled that I had posted about her on 10/12.

We have not bought a “pro” spanking video in years. While I have
long admired Kelly Payne’s still photo’s, I had never seen one of her
videos. I recently saw a clip and I was shocked. She was scolding the man in a very loud voice. I understand that is highly desired by some male bottoms, but it’s not where we go.

It was not exactly complimentary, but I have no use for shrill people, male or female. After seeing that clip of her, I would not care to be anywhere around her. It could have been that someone put her on to OBB?

Will the FBI show up here? I don’t know.

We all know of numerous Blogs where the only content is pictures. So DMCA Enforcers is sure as heck not trolling the web looking for violations. I think they earn their money only when someone reports a site.

I have about a dozen posts ready to go, but half of them use what may be a copy-righted picture, so I will not upload those. Bottom line, there may be fewer picture posts at OBB. But, there are hundreds of Tumblr sites for getting your fix.

Tan Lines–Round Two

2011-11-28T05:12:00.000-06:00

It’s fetish Monday again.

Thanks to Tex for sharing these with us!

I would like to say that the pictures above are sexy to me. A lot more so than the ones we are all seeing too much of now. It seems that half of the women in the world have been photographed with their hoohaa’s fully exposed, sometimes with the lips drawn to one side.

It’s not sexy to me. If I wanted to see such I could have been a GYN.

Thanks for letting me vent. I must be getting old and in the way.

Seven From Bacall

2011-11-23T14:51:00.001-06:00

1. I am good & loving wife, mother, and grandmother.
2. I am a loyal and supportive friend.
3. I am a blonde and know how to play the part.
4. I appreciate spending time chatting/giggling with my girlfriends.
5. I love to travel.
6. I do not tolerate negative people.
7. I love to read mysteries that have a little romance.

Hope you and yours will enjoy the holiday.

Seven Things

2011-11-22T08:23:00.001-06:00

I enjoy seeking out remote locations in the 11 western states. Places with nothing but horizon.

A small town in Florida had a statue of my great, great grandfather in the town square.

I am a long time member of Athletics Anonymous. Anytime I think about exercising, I call my sponsor and she brings over a chocolate bunt cake.

I drink about two cola's a year. My fav beverages are sweet ice tea and Ardbeg Whisky. [Not together]

I have spanked over 100 women. None of them as much fun as spanking Bacall.

Bacall says I am very compassionate and that I talk too loud.

OBB May Go Poof - II

2011-11-20T20:06:00.003-06:00

I think I know why the copyright police are on us. I recently said that Six of the Best had posted here and on MBS of his hatred of Sarah Palin. I am thinking that his response to my post was put the dogs on us. That would be would be what a coward would do.

So this one is for SOB.

I don't know if we will be shut down or not, but I am going to trim the 500-odd posts here anyway. The site is archived.

I am not going to put up spanking related posts until this is resolved.

In response to a remark that comments are more difficult to post with Dynamic Views, I have reverted to a prior template. Maybe that's why comments dropped to near zero.

Asking For It–In Application

2011-11-18T05:33:00.000-06:00

This is a spanking Blog, so we should be writing about our spankings. Well, we have and we will, but we have already told you everything. It is real difficult for us to write something new and interesting about our spanking play.

Ken of SpankedByMyLady commented on our post about holey paddles which created a few email exchanges about paddles which in turn resulted in my recalling a 9ply birch plywood I made many years ago. This sucker is round and 3/4” thick. It packs a wallop. I found it in the old toy bag along with several of it’s chums which had not seen daylight in years. I selected four of them for a paddle party and told Bacall to select her toys for a joint session the next day.

When Bacall saw one of the paddles, she cooed and said it was one of her favs – to use on me. Thanks Ken for a great paddling! Bacall used everyone of them on me.

What did Bacall select for herself? Her holey paddle and the Teacher’s paddle. I was pleased to put some color in her bottom with them.

So that’s how we ask for a paddling around here. Not all are spankings are requested, but all are fun and consensual.

Here’s Ken’s Cora with one of his well made holey paddles.

And may I say that Cora is rather well made herself.

I don’t know about you, but my bottom clenches up a bit thinking how Cora might use that paddle. I think I know the drill - bend bare bottom over the stool and hold on tight to the lower rungs and wait for the whoosh and then the burn. Would she allow me to catch my breath before the next lick?

I would like to say that I appreciate that Ken and Cora feel free to share pictures of themselves. And even sent me this picture which I have not seen before.

Thanks to those of you who do comment. It often results in an idea for a post.

Asking For A Spanking

2011-11-16T05:08:00.000-06:00

Asking For A Spanking – In our first married years, we did not ask each other for spankings. I relied on her to read my mind and Bacall used behavior. Neither worked very well for us. I was working full-time and carrying a full class load. I had only a few hours a week of down time and I usually did not use it to focus on her behavior. Her behavior was never bratty, but it was designed to get my attention to jerk her chain a little. Meanwhile, I was continually disappointed that she did not read my mind and paddle me more often.

Years later, when the kids were gone and life settled down for us, we gradually evolved to asking for what we want, when, where and how we want it. This works for us. Reading other Blogs, I seldom see any mention of this practice. Commonly, I read that some behavior is required for a spanking. Evidently, most people need a reason to spank or to be spanked.

I saw this in the Pink Report. It describes, not us, but some of us.

…. there are those of us who don’t actually like to be spanked. We want the lecture and the forgiveness, not the actual spanking. If we could skip it, we would. But the speech before and the reconciliation after would not feel the same without the submission and the spanking in the middle. We know it wouldn’t be the same without the spanking. Spanking is the taxi we hail to arrive at our destination.

Contrast this need with how Erica Scott likes it; spanking that takes her a blissful place divorced from sex.

We may be spanking enthusiasts, but we are all so different. It seems that the more we say after we say we like spanking, the farther apart we become.

Bacall writes: The most important thing for us is that we both have a good time. We are never disappointed because we get what we want and have no problem asking for it. Perhaps another way to put it is that we are both “only child” – “I want what I want when I want it and the way I want it”.

Sometimes the paddling is erotic, but sometimes it is just needing to feel the paddle on the bottom. You know what I’m talking about – that pleasant sting that stays with you for a while and brings a smile to your face.

Choosing the implement – MBS recently did a Brunch asking if sound was a factor in a spanking. For most it was not that important. What interested me was that only a few bottoms had any say about what implements would be used.

Bacall continues: It is common for us to ask for certain implements to be used. Sometimes, one of us will suggest a toy and the spankee will counter with the desire for another toy. Since we spank each other to give pleasure, it makes sense to honor the bottoms needs. Sometimes I will just take my favorite paddle to Bogey and say this is what I need.

Oh, and yes we both like the rifle report sound made when a paddle strikes a bare bottom in a live room. Bacall really likes it when she gets the paddle to report on my bottom. I will hear something like “That was a good one”.

In our new home, the acoustics are very live, especially in the kitchen and den.

Short Plaid Skirts

2011-11-14T05:21:00.000-06:00

It’s Fetish Monday

Bless the lasses who wear them and make us drool

Sweet Dreams

2011-11-11T05:44:00.000-06:00

As a spanking enthusiast, the lyrics of Sweet Dreams always had an appeal to me. I don’t recall anyone else mentioning it in the spanking context.

Sweet dreams are made of this
Who am I to disagree?
Travel the world and the seven seas
Everybody's looking for something
Some of them want to use you
Some of them want to get used by you
Some of them want to abuse you
Some of them want to be abused

I'm gonna use you and abuse you
I'm gonna know what's inside
Gonna use you and abuse you
I'm gonna know what's inside you

Eurythmics – 1983

Kinda sums up how a top thinks don’t ya think?

Love Our Lurkers

2011-11-10T03:51:00.000-06:00

Dear Gentle Readers,

The most popular Blog for spanking enthusiasts, My Bottom Smarts, (whose name this humble Blog corrupted without shame or guilt), has called for the sixth Love Our Lurkers Day. Bacall and I encourage both of our readers to post to as many spanking Blogs as they can. The experience will be self-rewarding.

It does not matter what you say, anything would be most welcome. No need to be clever or witty.

Tan Lines

2011-11-09T05:43:00.000-06:00

I like the bottom out-lined either with lingerie or the old fashi0n way with tan lines. I understand that modern women no longer have tan lines, but can’t old men have a preference for things of the past? Could the enjoyment of tan lines be a fetish?

I started this post weeks ago. Meanwhile, Bonnie was on vacation and wrote about her tan line.

I moved the chaise out into the sunlight and hiked up the leg openings of my bathing suit to expose the outer two thirds of my bottom. I spent the next half hour prone on the chaise, reading my book and soaking in some vitamin D.
When I got up, I went inside and removed my swimsuit. To my delight, I now had diagonal tan lines in the shape of a wide "V" across my bottom.

No wonder I enjoy her Blog.

Remember when barber chairs were sought after and common in homes?

Remember the Flip hair style? Then you are old! The Flip was popular when this furniture was stylish.

This one has my fav tan lines.

Have you asked for your spanking today?

It’s About Spanking

2011-11-07T06:42:00.001-06:00

Someone who comments frequently on several Blogs, sometimes here. He has some obsession with Sarah Palin, as he left a negative comment here about her. The more folks go off on Sarah, the more I like her. The conservatives do have the better looking women.

This person recently wrote in same vein: …. how about a political role playing one, matching Sarah Palin, and Michele Bachmann. Which ever one of these ladies, makes the most 'gaffs' during this political season, is given 'six of the best', with a cane, on her bare bottom, by the President.

I have a CONSERVATIVE blog and I don’t talk politics there. How about keeping comments about Sarah et al off of spanking blogs.

Friday and WTF

2011-11-04T05:53:00.000-05:00

I saw this on Barely Pink and can not resist re-posting it.

Given her expression, how would you caption it?

Is the whip for her or someone else?

Happy Friday

Bullet Bras

2011-10-31T04:47:00.000-05:00

Another walk down memory lane. Hermione posted about bras with an inflatable bladder. These bras are sans air pressure for effect, but I like the effect.

I got a D in Math in the seventh grade because Becky was the first in our grade to bloom and bloom she did in bullet bras and white fuzzy sweaters.

The basic style

Before and after

Styles that make me drool. Lingerie and spanking go together.

Pardon me while I find and ravish Bacall.

Original Sin

2011-10-28T05:50:00.000-05:00

Posters for Original Sin hard cider.

They sort of quicken your pulse don’t they?

Lingerie Day

2011-10-24T05:48:00.000-05:00

It’s Fetish Monday

Aren’t these handy?

Bacall and I both like these

Just an ordinary lass wearing a garter belt, hose, heels and a short plaid skirt.

WTF–You Caption This One

2011-10-21T05:04:00.000-05:00

Does he pass the audition?

Girdle Spanking

2011-10-17T05:51:00.000-05:00

It’s Fetish Monday.

Gentle reader Tex sent me some notes about girdles and spanking and got me revved up on the subject – again. So this is all his fault. While we both embrace our fetish of women wearing girdles, Tex wants to go over their Lycra covered laps, while I am more eager to paddle their girdled bottoms.

I am equally ardent about wearing a not much control panty girdle before Bacall puts the wood to me. It just a fun thing for us. Where the fetish came from I have no idea. It’s much like why do any of us like spanking.

I was looking forward to our both donning panty girdles for our first play on our road trip, but in all the pre-trip confusion Bacall did not pack one. I like for us to put them on and snuggle for awhile before we paddle each other. I like to rub her Lycra covered bottom. The fact is that we both get to rubbing each other until we are hot and it’s all we can do to stop and paddle each other.

This is the picture Tex sent. The italicized text is his.

Just curious, can you predict a spanko's predilections for ladies lingerie by the generation they were born in? I guess if so then I feel sorry for those born in the latter 60's early 70's when pantyhose replaced the stockings, nylon panties and girdles women wore during my youth when I was secreting all those department store catalogs into my bed at night....

Pantyhose were generally available in 1965, but it was the early 70’s when they became the bane of “romance”.

I agree Ladies lingerie has seriously gone downhill in my way of thinking. I'm sure the ladies wouldn't agree but danggit... the fact is that lingerie from the 50's and 60's just made a hot gal... even hotter. That glimpse of bare thigh above nylons... the FEEL of silky nylon panties beneath her tight skirt or jeans... yummy! Imagining what lying over those nylon clad thighs would feel like? Sigh... I miss the good 'ol days Bogey, truly there is much to miss. In the meantime, gals like Ms. Bacall and Mrs. Tex are still hot, right? At least THAT ain't changed a bit!

A glimpse of bare thigh was certainly exciting. But that thrill is lost to “progress”. Now we have bare legs. Oh well, Tex and I will not be around forever and with our generation will die the attraction for such lingerie. Just like a cod piece.

Mary Louise Parker

2011-10-14T04:55:00.000-05:00

Under fantasy spankettes, I would include Mary Louise Parker.

I so want to paddle her!

Happy Friday

Monday’s Fetish - Bondage

2011-10-10T05:51:00.000-05:00

On Monday’s, the last few weeks, we have posted examples of several different fetishes in case some of you wanted to acquire a new one to add to your repertoire. The thought of taking on a new fetish might make you a bit apprehensive, but it can also be highly enjoyable.

I know I am reaching here, but have you ever thought that some lingerie seems like bondage? No? Well here are five for your consideration. And even if it’s not bondage to you, I think you will agree that all the pictures share something in common. They are all highly spankable.

501

2011-10-07T05:42:00.000-05:00

Wednesday marked 500 posts for our little Blog. Yes, many of the posts were nothing but a picture or two and that has been especially true this year, since our life has become a little more hectic.

When MBS recently celebrated it's sixth anniversary I commented that Bonnie, gave us our theme - that spanking is fun. There were and are many Blogs about spanking as adult discipline. There are darn few that write about the fun and erotic aspects of spanking. We plan to continue with more of the same.

We understand that OBB will always be a niche Blog as we are both switches and we switch with each other. That makes us as rare as inhabited planets.

Speaking of fun erotic spankings, Friday morning we are going to enjoy one. We hope you will join us.

Fancy Butt

2011-10-05T05:35:00.000-05:00

OK, OK, here is the fancy butt you wanted to see.

Monday’s Fetish

2011-10-03T06:07:00.000-05:00

Looking for a new fetish? Join me in admiring women who ride to the hounds in tight riding pants. Yes, there is a crop involved. Normally used on the seat of their pants.

Rut Row

You caption it.

Elvgren

2011-09-30T06:00:00.000-05:00

I don’t why I connect this artist with spanking, but I do. These are my favs.

C0mpare with the one above

Can’t you tell between a Benz and a Ghia?

Mary

2011-09-28T05:42:00.000-05:00

She gave as good as she took

It’s Monday

2011-09-26T05:39:00.000-05:00

Being Monday, I thought I would indulge my fetish and post gals wearing short plaid skirts. Should there be any female readers who would like to send a picture of themselves in a short plaid skirt, we are standing by here for your email.

One of these was discovered by the elves in the vault.

Pigtails!

Spanking Game

2011-09-25T05:17:00.000-05:00

Awhile back I offered to send a play-it-on-the-computer spanking game to anyone that wanted it. Until yesterday, no one was interested. Trying to send it to the requestor failed as Gmail no longer will accepts executable files as an attachment.

So just for Steve, here is a fun game that can be played without a computer.

On a small piece of paper, write the name of each toy that might be used. Fold each piece paper and set the stack aside.

On an equally small pieces of paper write the name of each pair of panties that might be worn for the game.

On a third group of small pieces of paper, write the number of licks that might be taken.

Ready to play? Draw from the panty pile and put the panties on. Then draw from the implement pile. Finally draw from the number of licks pile.

What are you waiting for, bend over and take your licks.

You could make a rule that half or some fraction of the licks be bare bottom.

You can always draw again from the implement and licks pile.

You could have a rule that if you deem the number of licks is too many, you can draw again with a five lick penalty.

Our licks pile had the numbers 10 through 30. Many want a lot more than that, so you could keep the number of slips of paper down by numbering by 5 or 10.

Potpourri

2011-09-23T05:48:00.000-05:00

One way to while away a morning.

Yet, another way to spend your morning.

Been around and here it is again.

Do you think she is showing off?

Fantasy Spankers

2011-09-21T05:18:00.000-05:00

Bacall writes:

Some of my fantasy spankers are from movies, but a lot of the time I think it's the actor that portrayed the part that did it for me. My first memory of going to a movie and thinking the lead actress needed a really good spanking and she was going to get it, was when I was freshman in high school and saw "Gone with the Wind" as Rhett Butler carries Scarlett up the long staircase. We all knew she was going to get the spanking and more. There were no scenes showing what happened. You just used your imagination and the next day Scarlett was one happy girl. Still brings a smile to my face.

John Wayne was always spanking women in his movies, and as much as I loved him, I never imagined him spanking me. I do like the strong masculine guy and they seem to have disappeared in the last 20 years. Sean Connery in a kilt - nothing more needs to be said! Tom Selleck always brings a smile to my face. I think if Sean Connery or Tom Selleck spanked me, I would have a huge smile on my face for a very long time.

In Memory of Summer

2011-09-20T05:53:00.001-05:00

Fall will be here in days. Taking a last look at summer with a theme of luscious spankable bottoms in tight short shorts.

lace over shorts!

farm girl

Oh My!

WTF

2011-09-16T05:53:00.000-05:00

I am guessing this is in Death Valley.

Who thinks of such photo shoots?

Have a good weekend!

Our Most Popular Posts

2011-09-14T05:52:00.000-05:00

It’s curious to me that our most popular posts were all made last year. Nothing this year is even close to them. I don’t consider a one of them above average in content/interest. The popularity may be that they are common search phrases?

Here are the top five hits for the last month:

Spanking Pictures - 742 Pageviews

I Love Paddling - 551 Pageviews

The Principal and Her Paddle - 512 Pageviews

Kelly Payne - 379 Pageviews

Spanking Art - 362 Pageviews

Dealing With Our Demons

2011-09-13T04:50:00.001-05:00

I have known of Erica Scott for over a decade. I was a long time, but occasional, reader of SCSW.

I am not going to write a review of her new book Late Bloomers. Others with better word skills than I possess have already done that. I will just say that I found it an enjoyable read and commend it to you.

Erica and I have more a few intersections in our personal lives – similar parents being one thing in common. Not all of us had Ozzie and Harriet parents like Bacall did. As Erica relates her early life, I found it easy to understand the neuroses she has, having been down some of the same road.

Where we differ is that she has kept a journal and I have attention deficit disorder. While most of my life is blur, her recall is perfect. It’s a coin toss for me. Is recalling the details of childhood pain better or is it best to be blissfully ignorant of a large part of your past?

She makes reading even the darker parts of her life interesting. And she shows how embracing her spanking desires has helped her in several ways.

I had wondered about how her relationship with her love John worked. Now I know.

Some of her best advise was on the last page. For any spanko who may be reading this, do yourself a favor: Don’t question the whys and wherefores or over-analyze to death this thing we do. Just enjoy the hell out of it. Spanking is fun and for people like us, it provides a physical and emotional fulfillment that defies explanation.

That’s enough. Order her book. I think you will find it an enjoyable read.

No Theme Monday

2011-09-12T06:08:00.000-05:00

We have been doing theme pictures on Monday’s the last few months. Well Summer is over and I am out of large quantities of closely related pictures. So until I come up with something else, I will just gratuitously post pictures of luscious spankable bottoms that the men can grab and save.

Bacall is working on a post. But, while she has a book in her hands, not much else happens.

Today, a revival of Short Plaid Skirts.

I like a gal who brings her own paddle to the party

A very powerful picture for me.

Spanking Bench

2011-09-10T11:21:00.001-05:00

Weekend Special – You can have this spanking/kneeling bench for the cost of shipping. You must claim it by Friday, September 16th and pay by Paypal.

It is rather sturdy and supports well over 200 pounds. Foam cushions covered in a soft material.

How much is shipping? That would depend on distance. It weighs 16 pounds.

It has eye hooks for securing the spankee.

Interested? Write us at mybottomburns@gmail.com

Spanking Parties

2011-09-08T06:09:00.000-05:00

We have written several posts about spanking parties. If you care to read them, just click on ‘Spanking Parties” in the right margin. One of the posts What Happens at Spanking Parties? is fairly descriptive of our experiences.

Why this was on my wee mind again is that I recently read that several women had put attending a party on their bucket list. So I thought I would offer my opinions on the subject. I will do so speaking as the man of a couple. I have no experiences in any other capacity. I would not presume to speak with any precision of what a single person needs to know about such parties.

Most of the parties we have been to have been private affairs. We have only been to two public parties. We definitely prefer private to public. One reason is that the public ones tend to be heavily attended and if you don’t know the people, you could be left in the dust. It helps the man if he has one or more spankable bottoms with him. Most of the action takes place in suites. If you are invited good. If not, you may wish you had saved your money. We have heard that from a lot of folks. That is certainly true of the grand daddy of them all Shadow Lane.

Some public parties have more single males than single females. Regrettably, it always seems that when this happens, the men are not exactly Sean Connery look-a-likes.

Not that many married couples attend parties.

Most of the men are courteous and respect limits.

If you are into spanking, but not so much the many aspects of BDSM, be careful about parties hosted at dungeons. You may see more than you care to see. I mean after you have seen a man pulling a cart tethered to his scrotum once, it may get old. You will also find more of the slaves and masters crowd. If you want to be tied to St. Andrews cross and flogged this would be your venue. Bacall loves to show off. If you want to better understand this, may I suggest you read the chapter Spanking vs. BDSM in Erica Scott’ new book Late Bloomers.

Body shape: All shapes will be represented. Some groups seem to have more Rubenesque folks. Something to try and ascertain in advance if this is a concern.

Dress: Men would do well to dress in what I call business casual: nice slacks, ironed shirt, shined shoes. Suits are desirable in some venues.

The REALLY BIG CAVET about parties is jealousy. If your relationship can not tolerate your mate playing nude with a person of the opposite sex behind closed doors, you should rethink your party plans. I can empahsize this enough.

I hope that other bloggers will post something about what to expect at parties, do’s and dont’s, etc. Parties can open a window in you that you did not know existed.

Our party days are over. We were not getting much out of them. Sure I can dress black-on-black and spank women all night. However, such activity gets me revved up to be spanked. And there are damn few women who really want to top. A few will, but their heart is not into it and that is worse than no spanking at all.

We have been posting 5 to 7 days a week for almost a year. Posts will be less frequent in the coming months. First, our lives are changing a bit. All good, but there will be less free time. Second, I am about out of things to say.

I do have a lot of pictures that I want to share, but verbiage will be less. Stop clapping!

Hands on the Bottom–Final Edition

2011-09-05T05:58:00.000-05:00

The gnomes checked the vault and reported that these are the last of hands on the bottom pictures.

Sheer panties and nail polish to match

Cute defined

Busy and Tired

2011-09-02T05:51:00.000-05:00

The pace of activities has increased here. And none of it is spanking related. So you are fortunate that I don’t have time to pontificate. I do have a post on spanking parties that has been in progress for over a month. Maybe soon.

So in lieu of anything to say. I will post pictures of some domme’s. I guess some of the male readers might enjoy them? While the pictures are attractive to me, I see that I don’t even have a femdom tag for them. Oh, that’s right, I am switch, not a submissive. Never mind.

Fairly traditional outfit as I understand it.

I am not into vinyl myself, but I like her hair and eyes.

Anything with a white tiger is good

This is a reversal for Bacall, she likes to be the harem slave princess. She sporting the latest in asp headwear.

Passion

2011-08-31T05:31:00.000-05:00

Yes, I have a passion for spanking, but I can still, vaguely, recall those moments when I was much younger and even the touch of a lasses hand on mine was electrifying.

We had so many hormones then – whose sole purpose was drive us to perpetuate the species.

The electric touch, eyes meeting, lips together, minds melting, quick breathing, and sometimes clothes discarded, coupling, mutual screaming.

Most of the passion of new love dies after a few months. We can still sometimes find parts of it. It’s always fun when I can get Bacall begging for release. Equally fun, when she does it to me.

In a spanking context, this is usually kindled when I use the batten on her inner thighs. Combined with tapping her most sensitive parts with the batten. If all the parts come together, she has a fine come.

For me, it’s when she paddles me and stops to stroke me for awhile, then tell me to bend over again. If she repeats this a few times, I am as submissive as I can get and I get so hard that cat could not scratch it. She will conclude by whispering in my ear, will you take another six licks? Of course, I will. Soon my seed is split and she looks satisfied with herself.

This lass knows exactly the effect she is having on the professor. I am sure some readers have either done it or had it done to them. It would not need to be a student/teacher, any situation where a woman decides to initiate things just to see where it goes.

Perhaps she is wearing this when you arrive?

I have always enjoyed a woman coming on to me, more than my conquering her. Perhaps this is my submissive side?

Anyway, there always has to be more than just paddle licks to make it special for us.

Hands On The Bottom–Round 3

2011-08-29T04:44:00.000-05:00

There is a lot for me to like in this picture.

Happy Monday

Paddles and Such

2011-08-26T05:39:00.000-05:00

Regular reader Tex writes:

Being from the South, I guess no one should be surprised we all like paddles right? Most of us saw plenty of them in use at school or home growing up, even if we managed to avoid getting pops ourselves. Seems funny but reading different accounts it seems there are a lot of us who never got the paddle but saw it in action or even better, "heard" it in action and found something that fascinated us and caused more than just a little bit of seat squirming. I never got the paddle growing up but I sure fantasized about getting it from a few of my lady teachers at the time. I was a pretty good kid and rarely in trouble so the worst I ever got at school was a few licks with the coaches whistle strap.

You remember those? Back when I was in school it was popular to make various things out of thin strips of braided vinyl. The vinyl had a fiber core in it and I think it was some kind of craft thing originally but a lot of coaches had these long necklace type braided straps made to hang their whistles on. For less serious infractions, coach would line 'em up, bend us over and whip our butts half a dozen times or so with that whistle... MAN did that sucker sting! Nothing like the shock of getting the paddle but it did get your attention pretty dang quick.

Back to paddles... I guess the very first "implement" Mrs. Tex and I played with was an old ceiling fan blade converted into a paddle. I trimmed the narrow end into a handle, wrapped it with tape for a grip and yahooo!... instant paddle. Pretty good sting too, sort of similar to a ping pong paddle only with a lot more force. Of course it caught a lot of air so you couldn't get too carried away but back then we were just learning and our tolerances were pretty mild. I got quite a few early marital paddlings thanks to the Bahama Ceiling Fan Company... guess I should send a thank you note someday, huh? After that we went shopping and bought a kitchen tool that made a heck of a OTK paddle. I don't know what it was for but it was about 14" long with about half of that handle. The business end was wide and mostly oval but tapered down some at the tip. It was about a 1/4" thick but made from a fairly hard wood (maybe birch?) so had a terrific ouchy sting. Real butt blazer too because it always seemed to make for a really red bottom! I guess it was for stirring something but the paddle end was probably 5" wide or so at the middle. I really liked that paddle a lot and was truly sad the day it split in half... but it went down swinging as it were.

We bought a thin Fraternity paddle from Michaels craft store probably thirty years ago (man time flies, huh?) that we still have (and use!) to this day. It's not a "real" paddle as it's totally flat edged on one side and made for pasting letters or designs on. It's made from a dark hardwood though and has plenty of good sting being only about 3/8" thick. Mrs. T still enjoys paddling me with it every now and then and I can vouch that is hasn't lost any of it's sting. Most of our paddles are thin and stingy which is what I like most. I don't have any that are thick and to be honest, the thuddy toys we have are mostly leather. I do have a leather school paddle from the old Ecstasy Leathers outfit that we call "The Principal". For a leather paddle, it has a big sting factor with some heft so is a little thuddy too.

On the homemade front, I've made a couple lately that are keepers out of wood picked up at Lowes. One is a short OTK maple paddle, about 14" long 3.5" wide on the business end. It's got about 8" of business end so won't cover both cheeks with one swat but is really a good size for spanking each cheek in turn and then working the sit-spot area. This one also is seems to paint really nice shades of red pretty quickly. I also made a longer, maybe 20" paddle with the same 3.5" wide business end out of poplar. Haven't stained that one yet... am tempted to just put a light oil finish on it. Really don't want to change the character or feel of the wood with a polyurethane or clear coat. I'd like to keep that sort of coarse, open surface texture. One of the nice things about poplar I've found is that being somewhat soft, it seems to have a nice dull sort of burn factor... somewhere between sting and thud. Since it's softwood and would probably break, you can't really swing too hard but then for the level I usually enjoy "bare bottom" wise it's not a bad choice. Probably one of those you just have to plan on making more than once for replacements.

On my to do list is a really nice Spencer Paddle, both a full sized and "Dana" sized version. Dana Specht has a pocket Spencer with holes that is super stingy as well as the full on butt burner size for naughty boys (I've been spanked with both by the way and they're highly memorable!) I like the ones she has which have the smaller, 1/4" countersunk rounded holes drilled in rows down the blade. They're made out of solid core 3/8" birch plywood I think which means they're light but very hard. I don't know if you visit his blog but Ken at Spanked by My Lady has made a couple of very nice full sized Spencer’s that I'd like to emulate when I get around to it. I'd also like to try a few from ash, hickory and a few other light but hard woods. Your and Bacall's birch paddles look nice though the Teacher would be my choice too for sting rather than thud.

What say you?

Tex

Tied Up

2011-08-24T05:35:00.000-05:00

Looks like a fun way to while away an afternoon.

Hands On The Bottom - III

2011-08-22T05:10:00.000-05:00

No words needed

Making a Paddle - II

2011-08-19T05:20:00.000-05:00

Thanks to some questions about yesterday’s post, we have a post for today

Joey asked:

How long and wide is the business end of the Teacher's paddle? Also, do you hand sand the edges after you make the cuts?

It’s 7 x 2.5 inches. I round off the edges with a router and then hand sand finishing with 400 grit.

Ronnie asked:
They look lovely Bogey. How long did it take you to make them and where did you get the wood? Did you use a pattern to shape them?

A paddle takes a few hours total spread out over two or three days to allow the polyurethane to dry between coats. Cutting the paddle out and routing it only takes maybe 30 minutes.

I have used wood picked up from construction sites to buying it at hardware stores. The birch came from Lowe’s. They sell small pieces for small projects.

I made a paper pattern for this paddle. I finally got the size and weight right after several failures. It’s 98% sting.

I just cut and test until I get it right. The testing is fun!

Hobbes asked:

Do you ever have problems with bruising from these paddles? Seems like they would be pretty heavy on bare skin and leave bruises . .

Our experience with bruising has a LOT more to do with the spankee than the paddle. Some people bruise very easily. The teacher’s paddle is light and stingy and I cannot recall anyone being bruised with it. Tho I can think of one lass that bruises being shown a paddle.

PS. The paddle was out of the drawer yesterday and today!

Making A Paddle

2011-08-18T04:44:00.000-05:00

I have made dozens of paddles over the years - mostly wood, but several leather ones as well. Most of them I made for our own use, but a few were made as gifts. I would guess that maybe 30% of the ones I made for our use were long term keepers.

Looking at piece of wood and guessing how it will work as a paddle is not my forte. Maybe it will be a winner, maybe not. Bacall helps by bending over while I shape and re-shape the paddle, trying to get it just right.

The Principal’s paddle is one of our oldest. It has been cut down twice. Bacall uses it with skill on me. It’s way too much for her bottom. It’s pine and a 1/2 inch thick. It’s about 50/50 thud/sting. Many our our sessions begin with me getting a dozen, bare bottom, with this paddle. It results in a white hot bottom. I know I will be experiencing the familiarity of being well paddled for the next few hours.

When I am feeling paddle proof, I can take two dozen with it. I have not been feeling paddle proof for sometime.

A decade or so back, I changed from wanting a lighter paddle first and ending with the heavy artillery. Now I like the Principal’s paddle first, followed by a real stinger that we call the Teacher’s paddle. This paddle was made from a piece of scrap and turned out to be a treasure. It’s birch wood, light and thin at 3/8 inch. I have used it on several women. Over jeans, it stings, on the bare, it’s a bottom scorcher. Everyone who has experienced it has remarked, sometimes loudly, about it’s effectiveness.

It’s been out of the drawer the last three days. Once or twice a day, we have been trading licks with it. Tomorrow we are going all out with it. Seems like a good idea now anyway.

Bacall’s mouth broke loose this morning and after a dozen or so licks, she asked “Is that all you have”. I readdressed the situation. She started kicking her legs in the air and soon enough she was a satisfied gal.

Hands On The Bottom–Round Two

2011-08-15T04:53:00.000-05:00

I think the ribbon adds to the picture.

Perhaps she is thinking about the spanking she is about to get? Great Picture. Great bottom.

Seeing Double

2011-08-12T05:50:00.001-05:00

It just does not get any better then this!

Anyone have a stick of Double Mint?

Bacall Was Paddle Proof Again

2011-08-11T09:35:00.000-05:00

In the last few months, Bacall has entered a new phase. She is liking stingier paddles. It’s not every time, but sometimes. Our spanking life changes ever so slowly, never by design. Always by happenstance.

Once again, my "paddle proof" self reappeared. After working in the yard for a while, I came in to take my shower and to be entertained by Bogey. While in the shower, I started singing to myself "A paddling we will go".

After getting properly attired, I sat in the den and waited for Bogey to recognize how cute I looked. I finally gave up; I am sure he knew what was going on! [I noticed, I just failed to vocalize it] I thought about the old Mickey & Sylvia song, "Love is Strange". I know how to call my lover-boy - I started paddling myself! Of course, Bogey came running to assist me. [Actually, I like to watch her paddle herself. She does a fine job and her bottom was already bright pink]

So he starts paddling me. Now let me tell you right here that singing and dancing when a paddle is coming down on your behind is not advisable. Also not advisable is giggling. Also especially not advisable is standing up and singing, "is that all there is my friend, then let's keep dancing." Okay, I stopped singing and dancing, my bottom was sore for a couple of hours, but I had a big grin on my face!

A Little Light Bondage

2011-08-10T05:05:00.000-05:00

Hand cuffs sure are popular. They are one of the most left behind items in hotels. Do you know where yours are??

Spanking Styles

2011-08-09T05:48:00.000-05:00

I posted this page months back, but I never called attention to it. After re-reading it and changing it a few times, I think it is the way we feel about spanking. I have no doubt that others will have different thoughts. In fact, everyone could have different thoughts. Not saying we are correct in out POV. Just saying we have one.

Spanking Styles

For Bacall

2011-08-05T05:45:00.000-05:00

A woman on a piano has always been way up there for me. You may recall the scenes in The Fabulous Baker Boys and Pretty Woman.

I think back to the days I spent in jazz bars in San Francisco. And a talented singer I got to know in a club on Clark Air Force Base in the Philippines. She made moves on that piano that were so graceful. Do you recall Dixie Carter as Julia Sugarbaker doing a sultry number on top of a piano?

Dixie was a Southern Belle. Bacall is mine.

5 rules that a true Southern Belle should live by:

It’s manners, not money, that really matter.
If your friends need you, be there. Period.
Always wear clean underwear (seriously, this may seem like a given, but it’s REALLY a given if your mother is from the South and delicately explains to you as you’re growing up that you could have a wreck or become incapacitated and wind up in the hospital at a moment’s notice. And that is most definitely a situation in which you don’t want to be caught wearing underwear that’s either holey or dirty!).
Always be ready to share the news, but keep the family secrets.
Both your silver and your pearls should always be real.

So You Get Her Pants Down

2011-08-04T05:18:00.000-05:00

For those who like female superheroes.

So You Get Her Pants Down and this is what you see. Now what’ca gonna do?

Chastity

2011-08-03T05:27:00.000-05:00

Serious topic today. No pictures. I am going to write about things I don’t know about. This is not unusual, I am just warning you.

We spanking enthusiasts sure are different from each other.

Some men, that like to be punished, want to orgasm first and then be spanked. That certainly would be punishment to me. I will stay with spank, then orgasm.

Still others want to be spanked, but denied orgasm. Again, that would be punishment to me. I figure I am only going to get x number orgasms in this life and I sure don’t want to miss any.

From another blog:

Disobey, and we extend your time in chastity. Aggravate the Dom, and let's add another week or month. Ask for relief, hah!, there's another extension of your cock's bondage. Tease and denial to an ultimate degree, and the male asks for it, even begs for it, and if ignored, fantasizes about it! He rhapsodizes about servicing his Dom orally or otherwise (over and over again) while being denied his own orgasm or even a hard-on. He perceives this situation as a form of "sweet frustration". Periods of release are few and far between, and then it's "please Mistress, put it on again" time. A great many males almost gleefully write about the moment of release being denied at the last second through a ruined orgasm.

I am wondering if those who want to pass on an orgasm could pass it along to me. No sense in wasting a good thing.

From another blog, the down side of chastity from a women’s POV:

…since he has been in chastity, he is very quickly aroused and reaches an orgasm much too quickly to meet my needs. Gone are the days when I can ride him and control his ability to orgasm to meet my needs. Consequently, we seem to be back to the days of a quick love-making session which leaves him fulfilled and me frustrated.

We are all so different.

Spanking Games

2011-08-02T05:20:00.000-05:00

In 1997 I wrote a game in Visual Basic that would award a number licks, the paddle to be used and the panties to be worn. [You put in the names you call your instruments and also name the panties] The program picks a random number for the number of licks and arbitrarily picks the paddle and panties. If you want it, send us an email. There is no charge.

For a friend, I made a game that uses dice to decide the number of licks. [One die can be used as a multiplier. While snake eyes would be one lick, we have minimum of six. ] She draws one card that determines the position, a second for the implement and a final card that determines the room.

We have a new round about every hour. In between, we chat. During an afternoon, she gets paddled in every room in varied positions.

Over the bar stool in the office with the spoon

My fav room is the upstairs bath. I sit on the edge of the tub and she goes over my knee and I wet her bottom. The rapid fire administration of a wood paddle to her bottom gets her legs kicking quickly. The acoustics in the tiled room are delightful.

Nothing to prove. She likes to be paddled and I like to paddle her. Somewhat like Bob Seagar’s lyrics from Night Moves

I used her, she used me
But neither one cared
We were gettin' our share

Short Plaid Skirt! – Again?

2011-08-01T04:57:00.000-05:00

The school girl look just never goes out of style here at OBB. You think I might have a fetish?

White blouse, stockings, panties and shoes.

My best to Ms. Black and all the women who wear them for us.

Whiskey Tango Foxtrot???

2011-07-29T05:14:00.001-05:00

Masturbation Can Be Fun

2011-07-27T04:45:00.000-05:00

Masturbation Can Be Fun…even if you are the only one.

If those words sound familiar, then you are of the age to remember the musical Hair.

If women did it like men, it would look like this.

Paddling the pink canoe looks more like this.

I never know what I am going to post. This just appealed to me. Call it spanking and sex, without the spanking. OK, OK, ladies take a number and spank me.

Yesterday, Bacall saw a picture of James Garner, (Maverick) and she reminded me for the 400th jillion time that he could put his boots under her bed any time. She says the same thing about Rowdy Yates, the first James Bond, Magnum, etc. etc. Am I jealous? Heck no, I look like Hubbell in The Way We Were. I just don’t age.

I really pity the poor girl watching Maverick with her panties soaked and no one to spank her. Life can be so cruel.

Go Cut A Switch

2011-07-26T05:02:00.000-05:00

If you insist on behaving like a child, then I will treat you like one. Come here, please.' I'd heard words like that with that certain tone more often than I care to remember, and my knees always turned to jelly.

Being told to go and cut a switch was what you heard when you had pushed your Mom a little too far. It never failed to bring on weak legs, nausea and maybe tears of remorse. Happened to me, happened to Bacall.

Thankfully, we did not have peach trees. We always heard those were the worst. But we had plenty of switch bushes and you knew you better bring back switches that would please her.

I got the same treatment in grade school when I was sent to fetch the paddle and bring it back. That was misery walking down the hall holding a paddle that anyone looking out of the open classroom doors could see and know that it was going to be put to use on me.

I have used this in play scenes, telling the naughty lass to bring me the paddle. Once sending her to Bacall to ask her for the paddle.

Bacall took it as an opportunity to paddle her first and then sent her along to me. That was not in the script. She told me that Bacall paddled harder than I did. I took that as a challenge and I made sure that she had no further complaints.

It’s all part of my life long fascination with paddles. Having her hand me the paddle or seeing her holding the paddle she is going to use on me – both work equally well for me.

Before you run outside and cut a switch, do consider that you can break the skin with one without trying very hard. I suggest you start with thin ones and use several at the same time. This will soften the effect a little. You will have lines.

Chain Maile

2011-07-25T04:32:00.001-05:00

What the heck does this have to do with spanking? Well, look in the mirror. It’s made like a thong. Her bottom is framed for a paddling.

Nice frame indeed!

I know it’s Monday and her outfit is not white, but I really like it. OK? Besides, maybe it’s time you developed a new fetish? Do you have the patience to hand make a chain maile outfit for her?

Sports Anyone?

2011-07-23T05:21:00.000-05:00

Is it too late for tennis? We don’t keep up with it. One of the regular readers pointed me in the direction of the these pictures, so I wanted to share them with you, even if tennis season is over, spankable bottoms are always in season.

Seems that I forgot to do a Friday post, so I will schedule this for Saturday morning in the US.

Enjoy the weekend!

Three pictures for the sports fans.

The last one is girdle like.

Did You Think She Was His Wife?

2011-07-21T04:58:00.000-05:00

There was a F/M Blog a year or so ago that got a lot of traffic as it featured this lass spanking her husband. I was never convinced it was written by a woman as it catered entirely to male submissive fantasies. Early on, I decided that as soon as he put all of his fantasies out there the Blog would die. And so it did.

I think she was a model he hired. Good for him. He seems to be enjoying himself here. Ever been spanked on pallet of bricks?

The way she is holding the leather paddle is…well not the way I would hold it. Oh wait, I would not be sitting on his back either. As Emily Litella might have said.

Plastic or Wood?

2011-07-19T20:26:00.001-05:00

These are Bacall’s hairbrushes. The plastic one was a Christmas present from her aunt to her in the 60’s. Made of heavy plastic, it’s silent and brutal.

The wooden one she saw on an end cap display at Wal*Mart about a decade ago and just had to have it. Every time she has it, she says never again.

Here is a tale of a hair brush from a regular reader.

I'm beginning to think my purchasing that NuWest hairbrush wasn't the smartest thing to do. The other day the missus decided I of all people could use a little lap time... so thus decided, I found myself pantless.... boxerless... soon draped over the wifely knee in our bedroom getting a very thorough going over with a crisp hand spanking and a few dozen with our leather paddle / strap, only to be followed by her first real, honest to goodness session with the NW brush. OUCH!... OWWIEE!... Holy Crap!

Man that thing sure burns a husband's bottom! As I lay there clawing the bedcover and kicking my little feet... I thought maybe it wasn't too late to send it back but somewhere in the midst of my backside being set on fire I heard the wife remark... "You know this thing really does have a nice weight and balance!... I'm hardly even putting my wrist into it... yet."

Oh brother... by that time I was in a serious state of misgiving about getting what I'd asked for. She didn't seem to pay any mind though and probably resembled Ms. Bacall right about then, having WAY TOO MUCH FUN tanning my butt! Maybe I was having one of those off days or transition times you mentioned but I nearly crawled out of my skin before she decided I'd had enough. You know, it took just about every ounce of my will power to keep my bottom in range but in the end... it was worth it. The beast with two backs was seen lurking about soon afterwards so I guess maybe I didn't make such a bad purchase after all.

That was last weekend before leaving this past week on a business trip. You know I felt that bottom for three days....

Didn't seem to mind either.

Ode to Belts - II

2011-07-19T04:53:00.000-05:00

You may be pleased to know that when I tasked Bacall to write about belts, that it took her a week for her to get around to it. So, until she got around to it, she got the belt several times. Did she delay on purpose? No idea and don't care.

The belts and straps are well oiled. I like to oil her bottom with glycerin. It's so much better than water for amping up the sting. She is so cute kicking her legs.

Not me. Not Bacall. But, we have done this.

This Is Really Bad

2011-07-18T17:05:00.001-05:00

Please don’t say you saw it here.

White Girdle Monday - IV

2011-07-18T04:54:00.000-05:00

The final edition

OK, folks, this is the end. 12 weeks of white panties and 4 weeks of white girdles. Enough OK. We are going to do something else now. Don’t worry there will still be pictures.

Amazing Sex Fact

2011-07-14T05:31:00.000-05:00

In a list of 87 amazing sex facts I saw this one:

There are 20 male masochists for every female masochist.

I highly suspect that the number of female sadists is several magnitudes less than the number of male sadists, so there is little wonder there is such a shortage of female tops.

A time and place for bondage

2011-07-13T05:15:00.000-05:00

Bacall thinks it’s time right now!

Her blindfold on, her hands bound to the top of the door, the spreader bar between her ankles, the crop flicking her bare bottom – and other places. The flogger waiting to caress her back.

Three Crops To Go

2011-07-12T05:17:00.000-05:00

It’s all in your mind how you see these pictures. Some will see the crop being used on themselves. While others will see the crop being used on the fair lasses. Being a switch, I can see both equally.

Of the three, I would most like to play with number two. Her smile indicates to me she would try anything once. The adventuress type. YMMV

White Girdle Monday - III

2011-07-11T04:35:00.000-05:00

The third edition

When I paddle Bacall in a girdle – like the one in the lower right - her skin turns red in a much smaller circle. We both like girdles that separate the cheeks.

One more to go