Some blogs by males advocate that women should be in charge. They feel male submissive’s should get punished and worship women by eating pussy. They see themselves as being subservient if they have their heads between her legs. That’s strange logic over here in this world.
I have no quarrel with oral sex. I just don’t see it as a submissive act.
Maybe the guys that do saw too many Virginia Slims ads?
Some men want to forego male orgasm all together and only pleasure the woman. I would not care to be with a woman who did not enjoy intercourse. Maybe these guys are married to such a woman? Or maybe these guys are so bad at intercourse, the woman is only to happy to give it up? Or maybe the women is getting all she needs from other men?
I have read blogs by men who say that they are allowed one orgasm a year when the wife dons rubber gloves and jerks them off roughly. Is that submission? [Rubber gloves are a fetish. Did you know that wet blue jeans are hot for some folks? There seems to be no limit to sexual paraphilia]
Some men want to do some really strange stuff with their dicks. I recall picking up a book at a party that enumerated such. There were several pages of things like piercings, but the one that stuck in my mind was sewing the scrotum to the legs. I can not fathom how anyone could conceive of such a thing much-less doing it. That’s true stoicism.
Sandra LaMorgese, a Dominatrix, says in her new book, Switch, Time For A Change, that she never dreamed she would kick a man straight in the balls wearing six-inch heels, blood-red lipstick, black eye shadow, and false eyelashes. Well all that's fine, but it's far removed from spanking.
I don’t buy that women should be in charge. OTOH, I am not opposed to women being in charge. I don’t see a matriarchal society as being a guaranteed improvement. Men sure have not done a good job, no doubt about that. But thinking that across the board women would do better than men is wistful thinking.
BTW, the best boss I ever had was a female.