Arriving for the neighborhood party
Of course, no one would be overtly dominate or submissive. They would be like us. There would be no black fetish wear - well maybe for Halloween. And all would be sociable, no depressives, bores, egg heads, etc.
Playing with others would involve necessary nudity, but no sex. I would equally enjoy being paddled by other women, watching Bacall paddle others, being side-by-side with Bacall holding hands over a couch and while another couple warms our bottoms and, of course reciprocating.