Foolishness since 2007

Foolishness since 2007
Foolishness since 2007

Friday, March 11, 2016

Questions?

Sure, bring them on. 

Q&A - So Far

  1. Is Bacall spanked more than you or is it about equal?
    Have you or Bacall every used a cane?

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xxx



    1. Over the long run, I get the paddle more than Bacall. In a shorter period, she can get more attention than I do. It all depends on our moods. We have both used and felt a cane. I am the only one she has canned. I have caned other women. It's fine, but the wood paddle remains our fav.


  2. How do you decide who gets the spanking? How long have you been practicing TTWD and what made you start?
    Hugs Lindy


    1. We tentatively started paddling before we were married. Her first and then I got the nerve to tell her I wanted the same.

      Over the years, we have slowly, and not without bumps, gotten to a place where we can ask for the paddling we want. We understand that removes the dom/sub factor and the I have to take what I get, but for us, it works, because we don’t have a subby bone in us. In the last two decades, we have found ourselves able to tell the other, I need the so-so paddle while I kneel on the sofa or whatever pops in our heads. That’s not to say we don’t get some surprises from time-to-time. Bacall was the one to introduce asking for what I want to the mix. I followed her led.

      Bacall also introduced what she calls joint action paddling, meaning we both get paddled. These replaced it’s my turn sessions. These became our most common sessions. However, Bacall especially, will ask for an An All Me session.

      Hope this answers your question and thanks for asking.


      May I ask you a question? Do you think our arrangement would work for other couples? A few, some, or?
    2. Thank you for your answers. This arrangement might work for other couples. I know my Bear is the spanker in our house and I'm the spankee. We did try it the other way around once but Bear didn't like it. Its good that you are both into it and it works this way for you.
      Hugs Lindy 
    3. What was the most memorable spanking each one of your received from each other, in your life long association with this enjoyable fetish.
    4. Bacall writes: This was hard!  I guess it would be the times I have been in a "submissive" mode and put on my Persian slave girl costume, in handcuffs attached to the door and the spreader bar clipped to my ankles.  I submit to you and you and I have a delightful time.
    5. Bogey writes: It is a hard question. We have what we like down pat and we don't venture from it. We change dress, rooms, places and paddles, but we know what we like and we stay in our comfort zone. Perhaps, the most memorable, tho not the best, were the times we played with another woman. Having two women get competitive paddling me was exhilarating. And then there was that naughty bit we did after the paddling. Me standing between Bacall and her, both of them stroking my stiffie until I erupted and nearly passing out.

6 comments:

  1. Is Bacall spanked more than you or is it about equal?
    Have you or Bacall every used a cane?

    Love,
    Ronnie
    xx

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Over the long run, I get the paddle more than Bacall. In a shorter period, she can get more attention than I do. It all depends on our moods. We have both used and felt a cane. I am the only one she has canned. I have caned other women. It's fine, but the wood paddle remains our fav.

      Delete
  2. How do you decide who gets the spanking? How long have you been practicing TTWD and what made you start?
    Hugs Lindy

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. We tentatively started paddling before we were married. Her first and then I got the nerve to tell her I wanted the same.

      Over the years, we have slowly, and not without bumps, gotten to a place where we can ask for the paddling we want. We understand that removes the dom/sub factor and the I have to take what I get, but for us, it works, because we don’t have a subby bone in us. In the last two decades, we have found ourselves able to tell the other, I need the so-so paddle while I kneel on the sofa or whatever pops in our heads. That’s not to say we don’t get some surprises from time-to-time. Bacall was the one to introduce asking for what I want to the mix. I followed her led.

      Bacall also introduced what she calls joint action paddling, meaning we both get paddled. These replaced it’s my turn sessions. These became our most common sessions. However, Bacall especially, will ask for an An All Me session.

      Hope this answers your question and thanks for asking.

      May I ask you a question? Do you think our arrangement would work for other couples? A few, some, or?

      Delete
    2. Thank you for your answers. This arrangement might work for other couples. I know my Bear is the spanker in our house and I'm the spankee. We did try it the other way around once but Bear didn't like it. Its good that you are both into it and it works this way for you.
      Hugs Lindy

      Delete
  3. What was the most memorable spanking each one of your received from each other, in your life long association with this enjoyable fetish.

    ReplyDelete

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