Friday was play day for me! Bogey took control; he told me Thursday exactly what was going to happen on Friday. I love the anticipation of knowing I will get a spanking as it makes me think about it for 24 hours - very exciting. Friday arrived and after breakfast and coffee, I was instructed to prepare myself for the paddling. He gave me the choice of different panties to wear. I picked the pair that we bought recently - I love the color and they are so smooth and soft, but on the down side, they are very thin - wrong choice. I bent over the bed and he started applying the stingy paddle. I counted how many pops I got and decided that was enough - wrong again! He had me stand up and put a blindfold and handcuffs on me, then led me to the door where he clipped them to a hook. I do like this a lot. Next he started paddling me again. I don't think I counted this time as my mind was in a different place.
There is something special about having someone in control. (For me, it has to be someone that I trust completely, but also know that I can escape if I need to for some reason.) By this time I am now excited from the 24 hour anticipation and the stinging bottom. I gladly follow him to the bed.
Bacall, the week before this, kneeling on the sofa
Bogey writes: Normally I paddle Bacall with light to moderate licks over her panties until she is well warmed up, then she can take anything. Sometimes, I tell her I am going to make it burn right from the start and she will have to take it. Having to take it a real turn-on for her. Controlling herself to stay in position. I well understand the mental state.