….if you really want to know about a person’s hidden sexual desires, then find out what’s in his or her mind’s eye during the deepest throes of masturbation.
In one study with 141 married women, the most frequently reported fantasies included “being overpowered or forced to surrender,” and “pretending I am doing something wicked or forbidden.” [That's Bacall] Another study with 3,030 women revealed that “sex with a celebrity ,” “seducing a younger man or boy,” and “sex with an older man” were some of the more common themes. Men’s fantasies contain more visual and explicit anatomical detail whereas women’s involve more story line, emotions, affection, commitment and romance. [ah ha, so pictures of female genitals get you off huh? Doesn't work for me, but have at it]
This conjuring ability to create fantasy scenes in our heads that literally bring us to orgasm when conveniently paired with our dexterous appendages is an evolutionary magic trick that I suspect is uniquely human. It requires a cognitive capacity called mental representation (an internal “re-presentation” of a previously experienced image or some other sensory input) that many evolutionary theorists believe is a relatively recent hominid innovation.
What gets me off is when I picture myself being paddled or when Bacall paints such a picture in my ear while she has me in one hand and the paddle in the other.
So tell us what is in your mind's eye just before you explode?
Come on, share your's in a comment.