Six of our 13 readers asked questions last week and here are Bacall’s answers.
What's the most unusual food you've ever eaten?
Since I like all foods, I don't think any is unusual. For breakfast this morning, we had foul, (pronounced fool), a Middle-Eastern fava bean dish that we love. The one food that sticks out in my mind that I really did not like was escargot.
Who would you cast to play you in a movie about your life?
I always wanted to look like Sophia Loren or Ann Margaret, but since I am not like either of those, then Meg Ryan (notice I am not up to date on younger celebrities)
If you could go back in time to meet and talk to a historical figure, who would it be?
Definitely Winston Churchill except that I would be totally overwhelmed by his knowledge.
Michael M asked:
Who spanked whom first and did they immediately give off a signal that they
would like more or did that come later?
I was spanked first. It seemed natural because I always saw my father popping my mother on her bottom. It was fun and love pats for them, so I saw it as the same thing.
Bogey expands, I was not real smart about this. I paddled hard and so she was not real keen on being the bottom, so for a long time, I was the prime bottom. When she discovered leather, things changed drastically.
How did you both meet?
Bogey worked in the men's section of a department store while he was in college and they were having a spring sale. I took my brother in to get a suit and Bogey waited on us. And the rest is history :)
We know Bacall's fantasy. What's yours?
Being spanked by one woman and masturbated by another. Or better yet, having someone read his mind and do exactly want he wants without having to say what he wants.
How would you respond to someone in your vanilla lives finding out about TTWD?
That's a good question and have thought about it myself. I think that I would make it a non-event, just lightly breeze over it.
Bogey remarks, No one call tell when she is lying. She is quite accomplished.
If you could live out a dream scenario (or produce a film that depicts your dream scenario), how would that scenario look like?
If could film my fantasy - it would be a swashbuckler with a strong, very handsome, very rich man. I love to watch old Errol Flynn movies! I would be the seemly weak woman, but actually with a steel backbone.
John & Dana asked:
You said ask you anything. My wife, Dana, and I are into spanking and very light B&D. I am 53 and she is 42. We are thinking about going to our 1st spanking party, but which one. After reading the posts, under spanking parties, I agree with everything said. Now we are not sure if we should go to public party, but how do get invited to a private one. We live in a very small village in south central PA. We are both professional and in the public eye, therefore we wouldn’t do anything local. Needless to say only a very few close friends know of our fetish and they are all vanilla. We did try a B&D party in Pittsburg a few years ago, but were disappointed. As Dana put it, they were just too fake or want-a-be’s for us. Any insight or suggestions would be greatly appreciated,
It's difficult to get to a private party until you meet someone at a public party. I guess you could hang out in some chat rooms and maybe
strike up a friendship.
Our caveat on parties is that you should both be comfortable with the other being semi-nude with other people. Jealousy has no place there.
Based on your location, I would think the SCONY parties might be a fit for you. Especially the weekend one they have in the Pocono's. Unlike
the B&D party you went to, this would be all spankers. There is a huge difference in the atmosphere.
https://www.scony.com/ Write to Mrs. Margaret. A pleasant woman as I recall. I also see Joey Red posting about SCONY so he would be a good source
As to fear of being outed at a local event, I can see both sides, but the people you will meet share your interests and have no interest in
outing themselves just to out you. Of course, there are crazies out there, just like there are at the local mall.
I hope this helps a bit. Always open to questions.