Having lost many my draft posts, I need to start a new batch. So…
I got a note from a woman who asked: Do you get erect when getting a spanking? If so, I would want to spank you until it was gone.
Ooops! I don’t think she has been studiously reading our Blog as we have covered this before. Here is a short version from 2010.
I know a lot of men are rigid before and after, but go soft when the action gets serious. I would too. But, that is not what I want to happen. I like hard paddle licks, but I want, I demand, a few seconds between licks to absorb the pain before the next lick lands. Recently, some women revealed the metal gymnastics they do to get themselves through the initial pain until the endorphins kick in. While I am absorbing the sting of a lick I imagine it flowing from my bottom to the intense swelling on the other side. Seems to work as the swelling increases during my paddling. Sounds odd, but it is what I like.
In my 20-30’s, almost all f/m fantasy spanking stories had the man otk with his erection nestled between the woman’s thighs. The story would fork to either him losing his erection or coming on her legs. I had to be different as I did not care for either path. I want to keep my erection for more conventional friction activities.
By reading other f/m blogs since I started this one, I have learned more about how other men mix sex and spanking. [Frankly, before this blog, I was almost completely concerned with how women mixed sex and spanking] Anywho, I have learned that while some men get aroused by spanking they want the pain to overcome them and others do not want a happy ending. Better for them to be kept horny to be better serve their woman. I am sure it would help keep me focused on her. But, I am more selfish. Besides I read that three orgasms a week will add four years to a man’s life. I wish I could do it three times a week, every week. But, sadly those days are gone.
I saw a clip recently, where the man was getting a brisk caning. It made me filch. He was quite happy as he was vigorously humping the bench he was bending over and achieved orgasm. I have known a few women who like to hump a pillow or leg while being spanked.
There should be point to this post, but it seems there is none.
And in other news, a regular reader was kind enough to send several short plaid skirts photographs so that theme can continue. Aren’t you glad?