How do I say this? I have never seen this discussed. Not trying to put down anyone. I just want to talk about some differences I see.
I have long said that after two people agree that they both like spanking, that’s pretty much the end of complete agreement. There are just so many branches that can be taken.
The theme of many spanking Blogs by women authors is DD, HOH, etc. The male is the leader in the relationship. When the woman is spanked, forgiveness and romance follow.
This is less true of spanking Blogs where the woman is leader of the relationship. For many, but not all, of these blogs, it seems that the woman does one or more of the following, withholds sexual gratification from the male, keeps him locked in a chastity cage, requires him to use his tongue on her, has sex with another man while he watches, etc. all with the complete agreement of the man.
Honey, I need to be locked in a chastity cage for weeks at a time and then have a ruined orgasm.
We don’t get it. I suppose we don’t get it since we don’t have a submissive bone in our body. Women who desire to be submissive and disciplined, do not want to forego sex. While some men who want to be submissive and disciplined want to give up traditional sex.
I just can not imagine a woman who would say something like this. While I get femdom, to a point, I just can not imagine wanting to forego traditional sex.
Have you noticed the plethora of pictures of women that are captioned with improbable things?
Just saying there is world of difference between how some submissive males and submissive women mix spanking and sex. A Venus and Mars deal.
How do you see this?