We are guessing this was taken in the late 80’s or early 90’s based on the women’s shoes and the fact that the men are dressed in coat and tie. I can’t say much for the condition of the stage but it’s nice to recall that proper dress was once a hallmark of parties.
Friday, August 31, 2012
Wednesday, August 29, 2012
I took this quiz and scored as a switch. Big surprise. I am about right down the middle in other categories.
So I am mostly a switch, with slight preference for taking pain than giving it.
Bacall’s Quiz Score
A pretty good match wouldn’t you say? Since my Vanilla score was 50%, does this mean she is kinkier than I am?
The advantage of being a switch, to me, is that I can spend twice as much thinking about spanking.
I can see two sides to some pictures. For instance, I think that this lass either brought the ruler to me to use on her or that she plans to use it on me. I am happy either way and would be down right gleeful if she was a also a switch.
Here is another one that can go either way for me. As my Aunt always said when offered a choice – take both.
Monday, August 27, 2012
We don’t write about all of our play sessions, but they remain frequent enough for us. A trend we wrote about a few months back continues. Bacall often wants more and harder licks and I want fewer and lighter licks. We are having a little difficulty adjusting. I don’t want to overload her, so I have to pay closer attention to her to make sure she really wants more. And yes, I ask and she replies.
I find it humorous when she says something like You can give me another 10 with the pine paddle on the bare. And then the shock of her own words make her say Did I say that?
OTOH, she is so accustomed to going all out on me, I have to speak up and say something before she overloads me.
Friday, August 24, 2012
I thought that at the end of summer we should revisit my long time fascination with tan lines. I think of them as completely nude bra and panties. It does frame the bottom and certainly does invite my attention.
How is your tan line this year?
We were paddling our kayaks on the Pacific Coast recently and I think I saw this lass, but could get my camera out of the dry bag in time.
Oops! How did this one get in here? Wordsmith?
I never had that car or that girl, but maybe in my next life. It sure does bring back some sweet memories. I suppose making out in cars in now passé.
I have paddled a few lasses in cars and vans, but that is topic for another post.
Have a fun weekend a spank someone or ask for a spanking.
Thursday, August 23, 2012
Wednesday, August 22, 2012
I was in dream when I woke up this morning. I saw myself in panties getting paddled. I have not donned panties but maybe twice all year. So my dream was both unexpected and fresh.
After breakfast, I slipped on a thin pair of beige panties and a t-shirt and and walked passed Bacall. She remarked someone here wants a paddling. Smart girl!
I was soon bent over the bed and she was swinging what she calls the pretty oak paddle. She is always intent on making each lick sound right, resonate off the walls. She was as pleased with her efforts as I was. Nothing like starting the day with a warm bottom. She then relieved some tension that she had created.
Monday, August 20, 2012
How do I say this? I have never seen this discussed. Not trying to put down anyone. I just want to talk about some differences I see.
I have long said that after two people agree that they both like spanking, that’s pretty much the end of complete agreement. There are just so many branches that can be taken.
The theme of many spanking Blogs by women authors is DD, HOH, etc. The male is the leader in the relationship. When the woman is spanked, forgiveness and romance follow.
This is less true of spanking Blogs where the woman is leader of the relationship. For many, but not all, of these blogs, it seems that the woman does one or more of the following, withholds sexual gratification from the male, keeps him locked in a chastity cage, requires him to use his tongue on her, has sex with another man while he watches, etc. all with the complete agreement of the man.
Honey, I need to be locked in a chastity cage for weeks at a time and then have a ruined orgasm.
We don’t get it. I suppose we don’t get it since we don’t have a submissive bone in our body. Women who desire to be submissive and disciplined, do not want to forego sex. While some men who want to be submissive and disciplined want to give up traditional sex.
I just can not imagine a woman who would say something like this. While I get femdom, to a point, I just can not imagine wanting to forego traditional sex.
Have you noticed the plethora of pictures of women that are captioned with improbable things?
Just saying there is world of difference between how some submissive males and submissive women mix spanking and sex. A Venus and Mars deal.
How do you see this?
Friday, August 17, 2012
Wednesday, August 15, 2012
Here we go again. There seems to be no end to them. I wonder how many are sold each year? I recall one Bacall had. Bought it in Nova Scotia. Fine British Wool. So soft. It felt so good I could not keep my hands off of her.
Traditional, pig tails, white socks and a decent paddle
Rut Row! Bacall has been known to enjoy a cane tapping her right about there.
How did this get in here? Oh well, her legs are long and her blouse is plaid.
Monday, August 13, 2012
Last month I tried to put down my thoughts about pain and submission. I give myself a C for effort. My points did not come across. We remain amazed that some endure pain only to be submissive.
An anonymous wrote: It's not really a spanking if the spankee decides when to stop. That decision should be left up to the spanker, IMO.
That is not even remotely close to the theme of this Blog. We are only into consensual spanking. The spanking stops when we want it to stop. If it stops before we are ready, we ask for me. Real simple to us.
I have to echo what Lea said. I also enjoy being pushed to my limits, and submitting is part of the enjoyment of spanking for me. I know I am not going to be treated brutally, and have every confidence in my loving partner to judge when I have had enough. To each his/her own, as always.
That’s fair. We sometimes like our our limits pushed. The difference is that we let each other know when that is on our mind. I suppose that some people are mind readers. We don’t have that ability. I also suppose that some spankers can read the bottom and know when they have had enough. I fail at that more than not and always on the easy side Bacall will sometimes back off, when she needs to stay the course. Hence we have learned to express ourselves.
We talk to each other, verbally and non-verbally to get the spanking we want. Yeah, I know that is not something a submissive could do. Think of Erica, could you say she is a submissive? Does she get the spanking she wants? I am just saying that old fashioned conversation about needs is perfectly alright in between spanking partners.
As I said before, submission is intoxicating. It’s just not something that we can completely do. We are both take charge types
Friday, August 10, 2012
While Bacall is tied up outside, I thought I would post a few pictures for our mutual amusement.
Evidently, this did leave Las Vegas.
Another Valentine’s Day Party I was not invited to.
Fun In Cabo
Excuse me, Bacall seems to be needing something that I need to give her.
Wednesday, August 8, 2012
If panties could talk what would they say?
I am certain she assembled this outfit for one reason, to show it off. Bless her!
I have always been a fan of polka dots. When Bacall wears her blue polka dot panties I have learned they are telling me to get the stingy wood paddle to her bottom.
Red is always a good color
Monday, August 6, 2012
Friday, August 3, 2012
Bonnie comes up with excellent topics for spanking discussions. Being sent to fetch an implement was a recent topic. Due to our southern upbringing, both Bacall and I have been sent outside to cut a switch. [we learned small ones would be rejected]. We also recall the weak knees that went with the task in addition to the stinging stripes on our legs.
In grade school the principal once sent me to fetch a paddle from another teacher. That produced a lot of fear and tears that seared the memory in for life.
In adult life, being sent to fetch an implement has no effect on us. Our usual way is to put out the paddles we want used on us. This ensures we get what we want.
We would like to be able to get a little submissive once in awhile, but we are both alpha types.
I have wondered how it would affect me, if we had a neighbor Bacall could send me to borrow a paddle.
To try to add a little excitement to a session, I have sent lasses to fetch a paddle, but to my knowledge it had little or no effect on them. One would look at all the paddles and always bring back one of the largest.
After I wrote this, I saw Bacall putting on red panties and remarked on it. She said I probably wanted to use the red paddle on her. She was right of course. So I gave her six licks with it. I remarked that I was thinking about getting a few licks after breakfast. She told me to bring her the paddle when I was ready. Not exactly the same, but as close as we get.
I think I am about ready.