Much appreciation for those that took the time to comment on the recent post Six Things I Don’t Get.
I was not asking for agreement or dis-agreement with the six things. I was asking for your help in making it somewhat clearer to me.
Reading your responses and reflecting, I now think that several of the items are nothing more than forms of degradation. Yes, they are not my kink, but I don’t think degradation should be anyone’s kink. That’s a judgment and it’s mine. If you don’t agree with me, fine. Go beat a puppy.
1) Trying to extract tears from inflicting pain alone shows you are nothing but a sadist with no regard for human emotion.
2) The male desire to see marked bottoms. As I said marking can happen and is has little to do with intensity. But, if marking is what’s all important to you, then you are a sadist. Please leave the room.
4 and 5) Cum on women. The following explains it for me.
On a Tumbler site, showing a picture of woman with a facial, here are the owner’s own words:
I'm a happily married Swedish male in my mid-40th. [sic] Living in an evolving D/s-S&M-relationship where we both explore the depth and width of our kinks and our lust.
I find degraded, caned, whipped, crying, humiliated, bound, helpless and dominated women highly erotic. Add a moment where the camera has caught a glimpse of reality in tears or fear and I'm in seventh heaven, or give me a picture where the victim has lost all her dignity and knows it.
[PS, He teaches HS. Exactly the sort we need around children]
It ties in with 1 and 2 also.
6) The male slave thing and the desire to have sexual pleasure withheld. I will never get it. Pass
OK, I will take a hiatus from serious posts and return to fluff and pictures.