A regular reader sent this picture.
I judged that it was not Monica, but the result of a man being spanked OTK and having a happy ending.
I wrote him back and said this is another situation where I am not with the mainstream bottoms. I could never come from a spanking. In fact, I lose my bone when I go OTK. I know this is a favorite of men from reading stories and listening to women talk about getting come on their skirts. It's just not me.
He replied: I wonder if it IS mainstream? Do all guys that enjoy getting spanked always get an erection before or during? I guess I'm not in that group since I seem to get aroused "mentally" rather than physically before or during a spanking. I can watch a spanking or think about getting spanked or giving a spanking and get turned on physically but when it comes to getting a boner right before going over the female lap it has rarely happened.
I guess my query is whether there are two types of spanko's... those that have a physical, sexual reaction to spanking... and those that have an emotional one. What role does sexual pain play, I wonder? Do you have to be at least somewhat masochistic to sexually enjoy getting a painful spanking? I know if I did sprout a boner before a spanking because of the sexually charged atmosphere, there's just no way I can imagine that I would keep it once the paddle or hairbrush began to introduce itself to my backside. For me maybe, I guess it's the "thought" of pain rather than the actual pain, that's sexy. I don't know... it's one of the mysteries of TTWD that I still don't have a good answer for. Feel free to enlighten me... please! LOL
Can any readers shed some light on this topic?