I have a love affair with the belt. When we really got serious about our play, I did not think I would like leather at all. It sounded harsh - like a wooden paddle is so much softer - ha ha. But the first time I saw a leather belt being used, what can I say, it was love at first sight. So I suggested to Bogey, very strongly I might add, that I wanted to be spanked with leather. He was quite surprised, but being the gentleman that he is, he complied.
There is just something about the feel of the leather on my bottom that sends me to a heavenly place. No one ever used a belt on me as a child which is probably a good thing, because I might have become a problem child. It is very sensuous to me and I find it yummy. Instead of saying stop stop, in my mind it is don't stop don't stop. Once the spanking begins I get totally relaxed and very warm all over and I can become very submissive. Being submissive is not my personality, but the belt brings it out. Just writing about this makes me warm and tingly.