A few recent comments from regular readers prompt this blog.
One of the frailties of man is that we tend to see things shaped by how we are. I know I suffer from this malady. While I try to make a special effort to suppress it, I often fail. I know of a precious few Blogs where I am always completely comfortable with the authors spanking interests. Because I see their interest as different from mine, I tend to judge them based on who I am.
I strongly suspect our Blog is like judged. Jeez, a thought of a man wearing a girdle is sure to turn off some people. Heck, certain girdles turn me off.
I am wandering in the direction of my point. The spanking relationship Becall and I have is outlined in the header of this Blog. We both have dominate personalities. Neither of us is in-charge of the other. That sometimes makes it difficult for us to slip into being submissive for even a few minutes.
Neither of us will spank the other just because we want to or because we think the other needs correcting. It’s always a mutual desire.
When I used the F word as an action verb the other day, I was channeling Becall. When she wants action, she wants it now and is not shy about using action words.
All this to say, when reading OBB please keep in mind that we are always playing.