Regular reader Michael wrote: So how good does it get? - let's see -your partner enjoys being spanked by you, likes you to use a paddle on her bottom, enjoys paddling you whilst you wear panties and girdles, doesn't mind light bondage and allows you to use a pussy whip on her! Let me know your lottery numbers sometime, as obviously the gods have smiled on you in life.
We do have it good. And we are damn pleased we have each other.
All we do is 100% consensual. Becall tells me what she wants and how she wants it. Certainly not every time, but often enough so that I don't get sidetracked. She wants Her paddle, not any of mine. She likes everything we have made of leather, especially including the floggers. She like the batten on her inner thighs, And yes, the pussy whip. Part of her force fantasy is light bondage. We have wrist and ankle cuffs, plus a spreader bar. It's all fun for her.
I do the same -she knows I like about a dozen with the principal's paddle, followed by another dozen or so with a stingy paddle.
We each try to get what we want in this life.