I realize it is problematical to uncover a spanking partner that you connect with, no matter how you label yourself. Pure serendipity brought Becall and I together. I am not whining here, just reveling a fact that is new to me.
We have wondered why it has always been so difficult for us to find couples like us, couples who switch with each other. After posting to a few kinky hookup sites and getting zero responses, I am starting to appreciate how exceptional (or odd if you prefer) our capability really is.
Most submissives/bottoms just can't tolerate the thought of their dominants/tops submitting to them, even "just in play". They fear that it will create a lack of respect issue.
Most other switch couples, find others to switch with. In our view, this could lead to relationships issues.
Perhaps, we are able to switch with each other only because we do not have any ownership issues. No Master, HOH, Dominate labels.